Girls, would you kick a guy in the balls for grabbing your boobs?

[Beachlover77]

I'm asking because I was play fighting with my girlfriend and she was wearing tank top which really showed off her boobs. I thought it'd be funny while we were wrestling to grab her boobs. I guess she thought it would be funny to repay me with a knee to the nuts. After the knee I was just laying on the floor in pain and she sat next to me giggling and rubbing my head asking me if I was okay. Was the knee to the balls a normal response?

[BelleMmichelle]

Uh no... no I would not kick my boyfriend in the nuts if we were wrestling. If it were a friend, a random, or anyone I hadn't already been intimate with then yeah, you'd be doubled over in pain. It sounds like she wasn't thinking, I wouldn't call it flirting or being upset... women just don't know how painful that really is. You're her boyfriend and to me she overreacted, it's like hitting a fly with a baseball bat... grab the newspaper first

[Susann]

What for grabbing the newspaper?

[Beachlover77]

Don't you think kicking a guy friend in balls is also too much? It is just so painful. I can understand the stranger though.

[BelleMmichelle]

@Susann I'm making a simile, "it's like hitting a fly with a baseball bat... grab the newspaper first", meaning there's no reason to go straight for the nuts instead try a less aggressive approach.

[BelleMmichelle]

No, a male friend shouldn't be grabbing at my breasts, nor a stranger. It's inappropriate for a friend, not for a boyfriend. There are boundaries that friends shouldn't cross, especially sexual boundaries.

[Beatrice1865]

Actually we do know how painful it is, considering the fact that it hurts just as much to be hit in the vagina as it does to be hit in the balls.

[deambule]

@Beatrice1865 What evidence is there that pain from a vagina blow is similar to a hit to the balls? That's the same as comparing childbirth to a hit in the balls - we'll never actually know which hurts more, so why bother making such claims?

[Beatrice1865]

@deambule fair enough, I guess we’ll never know. Both hurt like hell, though, if someone gets you with a good hit. For that reason, I don’t advocate for kicking anyone in the crotch region.

[OneHyperTigger]

Honestly I wouldn't do that intentionally. But I have on accident because sometimes while wrestling my hair gets everywhere and everything is happening all at once I move to get away and results is knee or fist connecting to places that would hurt the person. Now she may not have done it on purpose, if she did you have to have a serious talk about it.

[AaceN]

Um.. that's a little strange. Can't say I have been able to relate to this before, but for starters, don't touch a girl in sensitive areas without her permission or okay to do so first. As for the response, I don't know if was meant to playfully tell you no or something, but even then, that is not an ideal response.

[amabc]

I don't think I'd actually get as violent as that, but if it was unwelcome or you did it in a way that hurt her she wasn't way out of line, either.

[strangytie]

It may have been an involuntary reaction, like those videos where someone scares their friend and the guy smacks them

[annabelle1995]

haha no she wasn't upset, she was just playing with you :D if she'd be upset she would've slapped you or do something else, definitely not giggle :D

[vonasaurus]

in your case, no.

violence isn't a reasonable response for either gender. and i would never intentionally hurt someone i love. this chick has issues, and i wouldn't be surprised if she gets violent with you in future.

that said, if she told you no and you did it anyway... you got what you deserved.

[cherry-fox]

As a girl, it's hard to understand how sensitive the balls are, since we don't have them or really an equivalent. I've had to have my boyfriend explain it to me because I just couldn't grasp it, haha. From what you've explained, I honestly think she was trying to be playful and didn't realize she hurt you as badly as she did.

[Beatrice1865]

We do have an equivalent. It hurts just as much to get hit in the vagina as it does to get hit in the balls. If you took a groin hit you’d be on the floor crying.

[jayjay16]

depends on how hard you grabbed it. boobs can be very sensitive.. I won't full on kick it knee you, but maybe a slight nut check

[heemang]

It might have caught her by surprise so usually a girl's initial reaction is some sort of defense mechanism. I would definitely had given you a slap to the face, but then realize your my boyfriend again and joke around.

[fortheloveofcurves]

No I don't think it's normal to kick a boyfriend in the groin for grabbing my boobs. I would probably gently and playful grab his junk in retaliation. But kicking in the nether region is a no no unless it was a stranger!

[Divinity12]

Imn, if it's my boyfriend then no. However, if it were someone else they would catch a fist to the throat.