What makes him "Amazing?"

[Anonymous]

Ladies I have a somewhat rather straight forward question for you. What makes your guy just absolutely amazing? And by this what makes you just call him that in each your own way. Like for example, is it because he's tall dark and mysterious? Is it his attention to detail? Is it because he gets along with your parents so well? I'm just curious as to what makes a guy "amazing" in your own eyes (indicating that answers should be different from person to person). The reason I'm asking is I'm pretty much starting a new relationship and I do not want to ruin it. I'm not going to try to copy anything you say. I'm just trying to I just you can say sort of reflect on myself and try to be a good, honest, fun boyfriend. I don't plan on trying to keep her around by pampering or constantly treating her like a princess if you know what I mean. I just want to be myself and I'm trying to improve the qualities in myself that would make her want to stick around for awhile. I don't know I don't think I explained correctly why I'm curious lol

[aly-marie]

I know what you mean, it's easy for people to say "be yourself!" but sometimes that's just not enough of an example.

I'll try and give you a few reasons I think my boyfriend is amazing :p

He loves me truly unconditionally; he has never gotten angry or frustrated with me, never raised his voice at me, never insulted me in any way. And if he upsets me unintentionally, he feels so bad about it. That's how I can tell he really cares about me, he doesn't let little dumb things I do/say get in the way.

He's also really charming, he can make a conversation with just about anybody, so lots of people like him for that; I felt confident about him meeting my parents because he's so easy to talk to, so naturally they liked him a lot.

He's a really genuine, loyal guy. Besides the fact that he's always so sweet to me even if we're in front of his friends, he's also really genuine to everyone else. He's the kind of guy who would do anything for his friends and would never let them down.

I also like that he's very driven; he works hard to get what he wants. He's done great in school, he's gonna start college for a good career because he wants the best life he can have. He knows how to save money, he does things himself to make sure they're done right, and he has all his priorities straight.

There are lots of little things that I've come to love because it's just him, but those are some main things :]

[Asker]

Haha YES!! you got it!

[Mande1985]

Well, my boyfriend is amazing. I say that because he is such a good dude. Like, even if we broke up or something... I would still always know he was one of the "good guys" that every woman is always saying she wants. He is intelligent, strong.. definitely a rock to lean on when you need it. He's affectionate.. I love attention. Hugs and kisses. He loves to cuddle. I wasn't a real big person on cuddling but with him I love it. I love when we are sleeping together, he'll turn over and hold me.. it will be enough for me to know he is doing that.. but not enough to wake me. So, I have these little memories of stuff like that. The sweet things he says to me.

[LauraRose]

i think your well on your way the fact that you are willing to seek out advice and worry over losing her. you shouldn't change, but I do have suggestions that are easy and don't cost a thing.

- call her everyday

- compliment her once in a while

- whenever you feel cuddling draw her into your arms

- be chivalrous (open the door for her, pull her chair, etc.)

- let her in when your upset

what a girl wants is to feel wanted. you should tell her how you actually asked people how to make sure you don't mess up because you really care about her. its the little things that seems to pass by never do. we notice it all :)

[Asker]

Thanks I appreciate your suggestions and I understand the point of them but like, for example, calling her everyday? wouldn't that come off as super clingy or if anything just downright annoying? lol

[LauraRose]

No lol I'm not saying every hour just once a day. trust me she'll love it

[anonymous_girl101]

The guy I am head over heels for (I don't love him, but I do really like him) has the greatest smile. When he smiles I actually go weak in the knees. And when we make out, he gets this childish grin, and I absolutely melt for it.

[telby]

i think its all about his personality. If his personality isn't great, how can he be amazing? You don't have to pamper her you just have to be nice. You can't be a jerk. That'll get you no where. Be sweet, nice, and well if you aren't a jerk then you'll be amazing or that's what I think

[Anonymous]

It because out of all the guys you've ever dated, ever kissed or ever even met - he's the only one you feel this way about. Or even a fraction of that way about.

That's what makes him amazing. He's very special.