Girls Would you date a guy that wears diapers?

[Anonymous]

Be honest please,I was in a car accident one year ago and have completely recovered ,but due to the type of injuries I received I have to wear diapers all the time, I haven't dated since the accident but I would like to. I'm afraid when a girl finds out I have a diaper on that she would leave or make fun of me. I would like to start dating again. What do you think?

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girls I have another question to ask you.please be honest ,Would it be wrong if I try masturbating in my diaper?I've read on the internet that there are a lot of people doing it. Would I be considered having a fetish considering my situation thanks

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girls please help! I started dating this awsome girl about two months ago.She doesn't know about the diapers and our relationship is getting serious. I'm scared when she finds out she will leave.Should I tell her ,or let her find out on her own. HELP

[tarkan]

i have no problem with it at all. being in accident was not like something everyone's looking forward to, everyone could face this unfortunate event in their lives. the most important is your personality, if you are a kind guy, with a great personality and honest, I don't think it will be a big problem for you to start dating again, BUT in one condition, make sure she's matured enough and not childish. what you need is a kind hearted, smart woman who can judge people based on their heart not on their looks nor disabilities. so make sure you approach the right girl before telling them how you feel and talk about your problems. and about the masturbating thingy, if you feel like you need it, just do it don't bother what people feel, because they are not in their shoes, you are the one who have to live with it, so I say do whatever you think is necessary for u

[bel42]

hahaha ..sorry but when I read the title it was kind of funny

anyway before telling any girl you date that you wear diapers ..first make sure she really likes you ..make sure you can trust her before revealing that.. I mean you can make friends with girls but you don't have to tell them that unless you really know them well and are sure that they are trustworthy ...but honestly if I liked a guy an found out later when am in a relationship with him that he wearsdiapers, I will be mad that he didn't tell me but I would also understand why he didn't say anything ...and I can't dump him just because of that.

[Anonymous]

Hey, first off, I would have no problems dating you! Diapers don't matter at all. I think you have to be careful though to look for a mature, intelligent, and warm girl to date. Some people can have closed minds (as you can see from some of the stupid answers) but I think most girls wouldn't have a problem. Good luck!

[Asker]

Thanks for the support

[Opinion Owner]

You're very welcome! All the best :)

[GirlFriday]

I completely agree. A girl who is warm, friendly and kind will not have any problem with this. I wouldn't have an issue with it either. I date someone for who they are as a person. I can only imagine your dilemma and it must be awkward for you, but don't be worried. Look at it philosophically, if she's the kind of girl who has a problem with it then she's the kind of girl you don't want to date. :) Hope this helps!!

[kdizzleforizzle91]

I agree with these girls.

However, make sure once the girls find out, that you tell them it is for a medical reason, and not just a weird habit. Go see a doctor and ask if there's someway they think you could overcome the problem with the girls.

[Littletad]

"Hello, my name is (insert here) and I have bladder the size of a pea."

I really don't see how any girl is going to find that a convincing reason to continue the date or conversation.

[demetri77]

I'm a (straight) guy and I think that's cute LOL. I agree with most of the comments, I don't think it should stop you from having a serious relationship. Just be careful.

[lucky_charmed]

aww, well first of all I'm sorry about your accident and I'm happy that you have recovered. but I think if a girl is into you, like realllyy into you she would be into you for WHO you are as a person. I think that there are a lot of compassionate and caring women out there who know a good man when they see one. I think you should date, there is of course a chance you could be rejected but there is just as good a chance that someone will fall totally head over heels for you! you will never know unless you put yourself out there. besides, you don't have to tell the girl right away. you should wait til you built some type of connection where you feel comfortable letting her know something that intimate about you. someone will surely accept and love you just as you are :)

[nom1394]

if you're a sweet guy there should be no problem

just make sure you don't rush into it, it's with the right girl and explain your problem before she... gets chance to discover them herself ;)

it's a more common problem than you'd think

and as long as you keep as clean as possible you have the same chance as everyone else

good luck and hope you find someone open minded :] x

[Anonymous]

I dated a guy who had to fess up he wore support stockings before the first time we made out. He had horrible varicose veins and had surgery for them but did not want them to come back. I did not care because by then I was so in to him. If he had blurted that out on our first date, obviously it would have been too much to talk about on a first date.

I think this just puts you in the category of serious dating rather than finding random girls to have fun with, and that is good. I would find another way of discussing your situation rather than call them diapers. There must be some sort of word they use for adult products.

[kdizzleforizzle91]

That's actually a good idea. Like I said in my answer, go see a doctor. They can help you overcome this issue, or at least make it sound not as bad.

[Nijababe99]

i would date the person ..anygirl who judeges a man based on what he wears is not the right girl ..its liek saying would a guy date a girl if she were bald you dnt go by that kind of stuff you go by how you feel for that person xD =) and I'm sure any girl would B happy to have you as a boyfrined and or future husband =)

[TropicalBreeze1984]

I hope this is a real questions and not some dumb prank joke. Honestly? it's kinda hard to say.

First impression- No, I wouldn't. I hate to say it but we do judge people all the time, wither we like to admit it or not, it's just in our nature.

But...

If I knew you prior and things started to get a bit more serious, I would still date you even with the diapers, falling in love can make you see things differently.

[selfishstars]

I could see it weirding some people out a bit, but it wouldn't bother me. If I was attracted to you and liked you, then why would I not be with you simply because of something as silly as that, and something that can't be helped, for that matter?

I would, however, suggest telling the girl before she finds out on her own, since some people wear diapers for sexual reasons and she might immediately assume that's the case and be freaked out by it.

[boy_lover2011]

It's gonna be hard but it's not impossible...there are girls who are totally f***ed up like that but honestly I don't think it should matter as long as you can change your own diapers and do everything else then why would it matter if you wear diapers or not

[Reeses-pieces777]

you need a girl who can empathize with your situation. your situation is different from one answerer who has stated it is from having a bladder the size of a pea, which isn't true.

if the girl is reasonable and has character and empathizes with your situation, she and you can date and there will be no hang ups due to the fact you were in an accident.

you were in an accident, you had to go through a tough time, and that isn't your fault. so don't feel that it will impede your dating life.

[TropicalBreeze1984]

Alright, now you sound like a freakin retard, masturbating in your diapers? Would it be wrong if I masturbated in diapers? come on, this is probably the most dumbest question I read on here. If you want to try it, go right ahead, no one is going to give a sh*t on here wither you do it or don't.

[kdizzleforizzle91]

If you insist on being a cruel bitch, at least fix your spelling and grammar before you do, or else you'll always sound like a "freakin retard" as well. That's just plain ignorant.

[TropicalBreeze1984]

I'm cruel? lol what's cruel is that your mom gave birth to such a waste of brain cells.

[chickitabanana]

I agree with Kdizzle, you don't know this poor guy's story!

He's anonymous for a reason, you don't need to degrade him any further.

Secondly, why would you go and slam someone who was defending another person? That's wrong and you know it, especially if you were the one to initiate the the rude comments.

[AnaK22]

To be honest, when I first read the question I thought no, but when I read what happened I thought YES, YES I WOULD!

[xxwhisperzxx]

yea reading that WAS kinda funny..xD sry

will this ever go away?

if a girls really likes you, she won't care, but I guess she wil laugh...im sry, but thsts just he way it is, she won't leave you, shell still like you but she (I would too) laugh the first time you tell her...

[justme91]

You should definitely tell her. That's not something that she will be happy to find out by herself. To be honest, if you're two months into a relationship, I would have expected you to have told her by now. Just my opinion.

[gorexnotxcore]

im sure a girl WOULD date you.

just make sure she's very mature. it'd suck to have a girl laugh at you for something you can't control.

[lovemyboyfriend]

:) I think you should go out and date! A girl isn't not going to like you because you wear a diaper unless she's a bitch. At least personally, it's all about the personality of a man and the way he comes off. I'm sure if you're confidant in yourself you'll be fine :) you can't control what happened, and most girls understand that and will see you for you and not the diaper.

[justme91]

The fact that you wear diapers doesn't even come into it. Any girl that dumped a guy for something that trivial is not even worth your time. :)

[Anonymous]

It's understandle that you went through an accident so you have some things that need healing. You seem like a nice guy so if I met you I probably wouldn't even care about such a minor thing like that.

[saphirasilverwings]

I would be fine with it. But I would want an explanation before I discovered it for myself.

[saphirasilverwings]

The fact that you would WANT to masturbate with your diaper on makes me think that this whole thing is a fetish and not a true story. You can't keep a diaper on 24/7- that wouldn't be healthy. It's not like you NEED to keep it on when you masturbate. So yes, doing that would be a fetish.

[saphirasilverwings]

I would be 100% okay with someone wearing a diaper at times when they needed to because of their health. It's not something they can help. However, the moment it crossed the line from an unfortunate requirement to something related to sex or pleasure, I would be pretty creeped out. Probably not a lot of people would be comfortable with the idea of incorporating diapers into their sex life, so be aware of that. You need someone who has the same fetish as you, or is EXTREMELY open minded.

[chickitabanana]

I think that your comments put what everyone else has been thinking delicately and sensitively, thank you so much for putting it out there nicely.

[saphirasilverwings]

Thanks :)

[saphirasilverwings]

I think you should probably tell her soon, if not now. Keep in mind that her reaction will depend in part on the way you deliver the news. It would probably help your case if you didn't even directly refer to them as diapers. Emphasize the medical situation and make it clear that you have a handle on things and you don't let this problem get in the way of living a fulfilling life. Keep things clear and simple and just tell her you thought she should know this about you before things progress,

[saphirasilverwings]

and then give her some time to process the news. Don't apologize for having this problem or act ashamed of it (that said, don't act like you love it either). Best of luck!

[Anonymous]

well, I wouldn't consider it a fetish if you had to wear a diaper...

[Anonymous]

Honestly...it wouldn't bug me at all. I mean you can still have sex, right?

[Sammyyx3]

Juss qo for it ; in your case its understanding that you have to wear diapers if a girl makes fun of you because of that then she isn't worth it