This guy confuses me so much! Please help!! Why does he act like this??

[jessie890]

the guy I have a crush on knows I like him and now acts very weird around me! he confuses me though

here are some strange things he does, if you could give any opinions on why he does them would really appreciate it

1. ill see him out at a party and walk towards the direction he is standing in not necessarily going over to him but he looks super uncomfortable and nervous and kinda acts like he doesn't want me to come over towards him.

2. however, I can see him again a week later and ill be all nervous and awkward around him and he will come over and say hello and act nice but still kinda nervous and the conversation is very short before he quickly walks away

3. ill see him at night at a party and he is awkward and on edge but if I see him during the day he will come up to me and give me a big hug and be exited to see me.

4. when he talks to me he stares into my eyes

5. when he sees me during the day he will stare at me and give little smiles and be attentive to me but when I see him out at night he is the complete opposite.

also before he found out that I liked him he used to be so exited to see me out he would always give me a huge hug and started doing this thing when we were out where if he saw me he would point and go "you" then come and give me a hug. he became flirty to but then that all changed when he found out I like him. I'm quite shy and I act nervous around him now so maybe that's one reason why he acts like this any other opinions would be awesome! thanks :)

[Papounetta]

Well, I think that , he acted strangely at first, only because he hasn't get used to the fact that you felt for him yet , after all he needs time to assimilate all that =) !

Even if the conversation, you got was pretty short, it's a very good start, since he came to you, not the opposite, I mean that he already knows that you like him and by coming to you, he's not refusing the opportunity that was offered to him: dating you. To be honest, I don't find any reason that explain that change in mood between day and night , does he got like a vampire syndrom ^^!

Anyway, he stares at you when he talks to you, that's a biiiiiiig sign, if he didn't want you, he would avoid you and not even look you in the eyes; he's staring because he wants to know you more, better. Hugs come first, kisses later :p!

[dalila]

What I think is he is afraid of some action, that's what I think because at night in a party you could go and want to kiss him or something or maybe he is willing to do that but he is so nervous that he avoids it. While during the day he doesn't see that possibility so he is not that nervous, you know what I mean?

I think when guys knows that we like them and if they like us too the get more nervous them if they didn't know.

[flower1000]

yes he likes you a lot by the sound of it but he has boughts of shyness round you on his own witch is the real him your getting the big guy at night when he's with his friends be aloof don't look at him flirt little round other men when he's about let him chase you men like it when you do thyat then give him a little cheeky smile like I can do that 2 |:)

[sketch12345]

its either 1 of 2 things, he likes you, and the fact that you told him just made him uncomfortable because before he had the security of not knowing whether or not you like him. sometimes guys can be a lot more comfortable subtly knowing that a girl likes them rather then it being said to his face.

2nd one being just friends, he may not be comfortable that you said that to him and now every time he sees you he might feel a bit creeped out.

just observe and response accordingly.

[Rynner]

I'd say that he doesn't really know how to act around you now... He still wants to be friends, but he's confused about the something more part, probably because he doesn't want to ruin your friendship.

I agree with Dalila about the night time stuff. He's probably nervous that something will happen that will change your relationship.

I'd say you should talk it out with him... see how he's feeling about the whole thing.

[jessie890]

I agree I think that he isn't intrested and now doesn't know how to act around me. I am trying to get over him and actually kissed some one in our friendship group at a party and now I notice he is more comfortable around me and showing more interest in me. I catch him looking at me now and he is not so distant now, although he still acts kinda nervous. do guys sometimes change the way they feel about someone?? I'm confused?

[Rynner]

Yes, your feelings can change for someone. My advise here would be to just leave it and let things settle. If he likes you, or changes to like you, he'll make it happen.

[RoboWonder]

He's nervous. That's definite, whether he likes you or not. Knowing that you like him makes him nervous, because if he does like you, then he might be trying to figure out how to let you know. But if he doesn't, he might be trying to get you to stop liking him so that he'll still have you as a friend. Try talking to him about it. Who knows, maybe you'll end up together.

[basketball08]

We'll by the way he acts, I think he likes you. A guy I like does this to me and my friend told me he told her he liked me. Guys are very hard to read and drive me mentally insane so I totally understand you. Maybe if he asks you if you still like him, say no and then become really close friends. Maybe it will become less awkward and sooner or later he will prob. end up admitting it. Hope I helped :]

[desolated]

sorry to say but you don't know guys.. he is proud of the fact that you liked him then may be he started to think about u, when you kissed a guy in front of him, he might get a preception that your kind of flurt. so you just lost your chance

[anonymous_coolperson]

He's probably nervous around you because he likes you back but wants to impress you so gets nervous

[Anonymous]

He's shy or embarrassed.