If a girl looks lonely would you approach her?

[So-Innocent]

If a girl looks lonely would you approach her?

If not, do you not approach her because if she's alone there must be something wrong with her?

If she's not cute would you just ignore her and go about your business and if she's cute you would be more likely to say something to her?

[Meedo]

It is better for a guy to approach girls who are alone than girls who are with friends. Because if a girl doesn't like us .. well at least we are not embarassed in front of her friend. Also sometimes her friends would always try to ''protect'' her .. and friends would make it a distraction to talk with her.

If she is cute then I would approach her.. if she is avrage and I am attracted to her then I might approach her.. if I am not attracted to her at all .. I might approach her to just kill time... but may be when I know her personality may be she will be more attractive.

[superdudeman]

Guys are not like girls.

Girls would probably NOT approach a man that looks like that. because like you said, they would assume something is wrong with him.

Girls pretty much can do nothing wrong. As long as she's physically attractive, they are going to approach.

[So-Innocent]

Oh okay...

but what if she's not pretty? More of an average looking girl?

[superdudeman]

Then it doesn't matter, men are going to approach women as long as they are not hideous.

Some men will even approach women who are ugly because man men are desperate.

[MrKkibbles]

Desperate or have confidence issues, although some people might consider both of those to always appear together.

[ScepMan]

Personally, I think it's much easier to approach a girl who's by herself than a girl who's in a group with a bunch of other girls I don't know. If she really looked lonely (not like she enjoys being alone) then I would approach her, regardless of her looks, but if she seemed content, I might talk to her for a bit and gauge her reaction, then leave if she indicated she's happier alone.

[Brando]

Actually I think it would be easier to approach her if she was by herself. The only thing would be if she looked like she didn't want to be approached. If she was busy with something or just didn't seem that open to being bothered by someone, then I wouldn't bother her. But otherwise I think I would try it.

[dro305]

I actually find it easier to approach girls when they are by themselves. I hate the feeling of approaching a girl and have her friends as an audience.

If she's cute, I would say something. But what to say...hm. Sometimes I don't know what to say. But if I think of something to say, I definitely would.

[Hughman]

Possibly, depends on the situation. I'd be unlikely to do if I was with friends, unless I'm out sarging, in which case I would only be with one or two wings.

And no, I wouldn't approach if I didn't find her attractive, unless I know her or she's obviously in distress.

[lilaznnerd]

Cute or not, I would probably approach her and see if she is okay because I know the feeling of sitting alone especially when there aren't much other people in the same place that are alone. I wouldn't relentlessly bug her, but I would definitely ask her if she wanted company.

[SoberIrishman]

if she's attractive or not I would talk to her to see what's up. I would just be more flirtatious about it if I found her attractive. I don't like seeing girls sad if I think I can help them feel better. =)

[So-Innocent]

I don't mean sad. Sad looks different than lonely right?

She just alone and looks like she's thinking about something. She has a neutral look on her face, not sad.

[SoberIrishman]

Still the same thing to me. If she's out and by herself with no one around I would strike up a conversation with her. I talk to random people everywhere, both guys and girls just because I like conversation.

[thepianist]

Well, I would. I would ask what's up, how she is and stuff liek that but if she didn't respond or still seemed quiet, didn't talk back much, then I would probably give up.

[cacapisu]

If she's cute I think I would.

I was running trough the woods today and I saw a cute girl standing alone on the ground with her head down on her arms. Right when I was about to say "hey, what's up" her boyfriend came from nowhere lol

[Hartmut]

I believe I have done this before, during a night in Sober Lane (the name of a bar in Cork City) with the UCC Choral Society, which I'm a part of.