Does this mean my boyfriend doesn't think I am pretty anymore?

[LilPinkGirl]

i will always call him handsome...say hi sexy...tell him how pretty his eyes are...compliment him and try to make him feel so good looking because I think he is...he thinks he is fat, but I constantly tell him how sexy I think his body is and I don't care that he gained weight...well, whenever I tell him things he says awwe thanks and kisses me on the forehead or cheek or cuddles up to me. or if I say it in a text he will either says thanks! or awwwe...

he never returns compliments...and I will spend forever getting dressed up for him if we go out somewhere and I won't get anything...like we went to this huge music festival (EDC) and I did my makeup really cute and wore a cute/sexy outfit. he didn't say anything, he only remarked on how huge my boobs looked.

then later on he saw his old HS friend and she wasn't even dressed up...has acne...just tomboyish...and he told her "awe you look cute tonight!" I don't understand...when I dress tomboyish he says how nice it would be to see me dressed up...so I don't understand why he would think she is cute? she was not even that attractive so I felt bad...and showed it then finally he grabbed me and danced with me and said "oh f$%k you look so hot"...i don't understand?

does it sound like he isn't attracted to me anymore? we have been together 3 years and have a kid together...

[azzhole725]

If he's still with you, he still likes you. The old high school friend is not attractive, but since he's her friend, he's trying to "boost her confidence." Believe me, when you walk out in public, guys will stare especially when you dress "sexy." He probably doesn't say anything because he doesn't appreciate you like he used to. He's gotten comfortable with you and is not worried about losing you. It's a natural digression. If we truly wasn't happy with you, wouldn't he be paying attention to other women and talk about leaving you?

[henzo_zyo]

no no no. get the negative thinkng out of your head, you should ask him how could he give compliments to other girl and never once say it to u, that's a bit of problem there, but as long as he is loyal, then you should not really make that as big deal, you just need to explain to him about your problem

[barbie2525]

I'm in the same situation as you and definitely can relate on this subject. I always tell my boyfriend how good and sexy he looks and rarely get that in return. (Unless he's sucking up) I think it's just part of being with someone for so long. As time goes on they don't feel the need to wow the girl over anymore. I've been dating a guy for a year now and noticed things slowly slacking off but I think that's normal with any relationship. He knows he has me now so there is no sense for all the cute compliments and what not.

[neelloc]

i'd say that he's probably still attracted to you , but he's most likely thinking that because you've been together for so long he doesn't have to give you compliments every time you get dressed up. (although, I know we all expect our men too :P)

just remind him that its nice to hear a compliment from him every once in a while :P

[HisWifey]

Heyy I'm new here but I would lik to put a piece of thought. . I do agree on What everyone sed here. .nd its also nice if guys would compliment deir girls once in a while as we do for dem. . sometimes us girls dress to impress our men nd Dey dnt realize itt but yet Dey can realize other b******! which gets us madd. . Juss sayin :))

[browolf]

it's easier to give compliments to people who seem to need them. That's what you're doing with yours. For some reason he's gotten to thinking you don't need them anymore. Probably a side affect of his diminished confidence compared to yours. You need to train him to give them back again. when he says it be nice to see you dressed up, be sad and say he doesn't say how pretty or sexy you are when you do that. ;;