I asked this guy out and he said yes.

[Anonymous]

I know he has weird schedule because of work, so I asked him when would work for him, and he said he would let me know. But it has been over a week now and still no call. I have seen him a couple times since, and he is very nice...making small talk, but nothing about our date. Could he have just said yes to be nice. Not sure if guys do that. He's not 100 years old so I'm sure he didn't forget. What should I do? Nothing...just let it go?

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Thank you very much. Let me ask you this...should I wait alittle bit and mention it to him, with of course more specifics. Or am I stuck with the initial "I'll let you know" answer. I'm not sure if that "I'll let you know" answer IS my answe

[ManAmongBoys]

DON'T LET IT GO! First, can I just say how awesome it is that a girl actually has the guts to ask a guy out! Finally! a modern woman!

But you made the mistake that a lot of new date-askers (both male and female) make. You asked too vague. Whenever you ask someone out, be specific! In fact, it's best to have a date planned before you even ask. In any event, make sure you ask him to a specific date and time:

"Would you like to join me for dinner/a round of golf/my stamp collector's meeting on Friday evening/Monday morning/Tuesday?"

Be specific - it let's him know what time frame he's looking at. It also gives him a chance to say no (if that's what's going to happen) without stringing you along. *IF* he says no, hopefully he'll ask for a rain check. If he doesn't, offer ONE other option. If he turns that down too, he's not interested. (If he turns down two, he'll offer his own date/time if he's interested but just busy right now.)

[Asker]

Thank you very much. Let me ask you this...should I wait alittle bit and mention it to him, with of course more specifics. Or am I stuck with the initial "I'll let you know" answer. I'm not sure if that "I'll let you know" answer IS my answer. If you know what I mean

[ManAmongBoys]

Hit him up again. "Have you thought any more about going out? How about [actvity, date/time]?" At this point, though, since he's had time to percolate, if he says no to specifics or says "I'll let you know" - without offering an alternative or rain check - he's probably not interested and doesn't have the balls to tell you.

[jezzz23]

maybe the guy has a lot on his mind and he's not quite ready to go out with someone, but he cldnt blow you off cz he wanted you to know that he wana hang out with u. I think you should forget about it for a while and keep yourself busy with other stuff, I'm sure the guy will bring it up when he's no longer busy :)

[Asker]

Thanks!!

[ButterflyKisses21]

thats weird. Maybe if it was breif and he was busy at the time...he might have forgetten. Just wait it out for a week or so but still talk to him normally and then eventually bring it up. :) xo

[Asker]

Yeah I think you are right! I think next time I will be more specific. If he still is vague at that point, then he really isn't interested. Asking him out the first time was nerve wracking...I think mentioning it again may take even MORE nerve. Thanks!