I met a girl, she gave me her number, what do I do?

[Messi10]

I work at a restaurant, and as I was serving this beautiful girl, she gave me couple of dirty winks and smiles and other gestures, with me replying with flirty smiles and looks. She was with a guy that looked very sloppy Nd as if she wasn't interested in him. Right when they were leaving, she grabbed a pen, a business card of my restaurant, and wrote her number for me. She folded the paper, and handed it into my palm saying: "sorry the writing is a little messy..." and left me the note saying: " her phone number, her name and call me sum time"

what is the best thing for me to do as I kinda like her. Should I wait a little or call right away? Please. Help

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Wat should I talk about?

Should I be worried tht I it's a prank or flop

[bobair]

Be a man of integrity and good spirit.

Call and say, "Hey Susan? Is this the short little cute girl who kept flirting with me in front of her boyfriend? I'm the waiter who totally loved it. Hey, I can't chat right now cause I'm at work... are you into chocolate? Great, put aside 30 minutes tomorrow night at 6 and join me at this cool little dessert place downtown. Then we can find out if you're as much fun tomorrow as you were yesterday. Ha!"

If she's not there leave a message, "Hey, Susan! Wow, we haven't talked in ... it feels like years! Let's grab some chocolate cake at this cute little place I know downtown... if you're free around 6 some night this week call me back and let me know, or text me. See ya soon, Fred.'

Or text her, "Hey! I got this number from a super cute girl who kept flirting with me while I waited on her. I need to thank her for making my night. Text me back, Fred."

If she was just teasing you, and girls really don't do that, then who cares. It was good fun!

Sitting around worrying you're being goofed is what goofs do. The "cool guy" doesn't really care. He just likes flirting with hotties.

Either way, you win!

~ Robby

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[Messi10]

Okey, thanks for the advice!!

[markml]

Probably best to wait a couple days...but no more than a week. At the very least, wait one day though, because if she's worth your time, she won't forget about you that quickly.

Don't worry about it being a prank. The only way this would be a prank is if this was setup by someone who knew you. And regardless, you have nothing to lose by playing along. Just play it kinda cool, because you don't really know this girl too well yet.

So call her up. Next, this is optional, but I would start out by making a light joke...maybe something about the business card. Then ask her how she is doing.

She will either say "fine" or something short, or she will start talking about herself more. If she does the latter, that is the clue that she wants to talk and maybe get to know you better, in which case just follow her lead.

If she doesn't say much, then immediately jump to asking her out, because that's probably what she wanted in the first place. You can assume that if she gave you her number, and she doesn't respond much when you ask how she's doing, then she wants you to ask her out right away.

This is actually a pretty easy situation since she gave you her number without you even asking.

[Phoenix52]

I would have called her the moment I got off work. Instead of jibbr-jabbering with her, just set up a time and a meeting place. Go out as soon as possible.

Forget the whole 3-day rule. That sh*t doesn't matter - if you wait too long it can backfire on you, and she may forget or be disinterested by then.

Strike while the iron is hot and just go for it. She showed her interest, now you follow up. Take a condom with you JUST INCASE it does get hot and heavy.

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

I agree, I only suggest tomorrow in consideration of the current time.

[Messi10]

Ok thanks broo.

[Messi10]

So you mean today or tmr as in Saturday

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

Call her tomorrow.

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

If it's a prank than she sucks, and is mean-spirited to the level that she tortures small animals on the weekend.

What do you like to talk about?

[Messi10]

Well she asked me to charge her phone while she was thr so I could ask thing bout ht

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

I don't understand the sentence you just typed.

Anyway, just talk to her about things you normally talk about. Except sex. Don't bring up sex in the first conversation ever.

[Messi10]

I was trying to say, I was charging her phone while she was there. So I could ask somEthing about the phone..

[WaitingAtTheDoor]

Call her right.....this....minute.