Why does she pull me in and push me away?

chromeandsteel
We are both mid 40s in age. We met and dated for three months, next she made her exit from my life. I could tell she was torn with the decision and I had let her go. Over a period of about four months we never spoke, only some time to time text or facebook weather talk.. Then she started to call me once twice a week for about three or four weeks. Then we went out. We had a great time and she over and over told me how great it has been to see me and we will get together soon again. I was leaving her house not assuming anything when she took my hand walked me to my car and kissed me a few times on the lips and quoted a line from a poem I wrote her back when we were dating. I thought great because I have always left the light on for her hoping there would be another chance. Then she jerks the rug out from under me... although she called me she back peddled to say she didn't want a boyfriend or relationship right now and is happy being single. So.. she is totally hot for me when together and cold on me when we are apart and I can't get face to face with her.. WHY? part two of my question... My sister says go over to her house on the motorcycle uninvited and be a man and take control... sounds sexy but I don't want to look like a stalker but we do live an hour apart so it would be intentional for sure..

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in short.. she can't resist me face to face... sounds cocky but its true.. then giver her some time apart to think about things and she running to hide~
Why does she pull me in and push me away?
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