The other day I tried to ask this girl out and she says I only date black guys. I'm not against interracial dating but dating only black guys? As I did some research I realized that this is starting to become common. So what is it that attracts white girls to black guys and not white guys? what are they better at?
I'm very attracted to black men, but I'd never say they're the only ethnicity I would date. Here are some of my reasons:
--They more commonly have a body type I'm attracted to. Well built with defined muscles all around. Not all girls like muscles, I really do. Also the dark features. I tend to go for tanner guys of any ethnicity.
--They tend to be straight to the point when it comes to attraction. If they think I'm hot, they'll come over, tell me and ask for my number. I'm a confident girl, so their confidence drives me wild.
--They tend to be very masculine and have a certain "swag" like MeuAmor said. It's a little indescribable.
Overall, while every guy is different and it's impossible to judge an entire group of people based on race, there are a few traits I've rarely seen in all of the black men I've dated. They were never insecure, desperate, afraid to talk to me or afraid to be a man. And they usually have a body type I find attractive. Like I said, it's impossible to judge an entire group based on race, but those are my findings. Now when I run into guys of any other race that demonstrate those qualities I find attractive, I'm all over them too!
Maybe they just like how the act, treat them, and they way a lot of them carry themselves in general aka "swag". I'm attracted to different ethnicites myself and I would be lying if I didn't say black guys do act pretty different from white guys unless they grew up surrounded by them or something. It's not about being able to dance, being naturally...hm big, it really comes down to how they just tend to naturally act. Maybe they just like how black guys look, it may be aesthetically pleasing to them.
First off, I think that ONLY dating a race other than your own is weird. It's like some Black guys tell me they don't like Black girls and I'm like "your mom is a Black girl!" White girls who only date black guys are out of it too. Its fine to have a preference and to go for those people, but not to date them exclusively and to reject your own kind!
I personally don't go for a guy just because he's black. I like dark skinned athletic black guys. I just like the way they look and how they're more assertive.
The reason why I mostly only date black guys is because I just find them so sexy. I love the way they treat there women they are just so sweet . Black people are just Awesome and fun to be around. They have awesome personalities, they are sexy, and well black guys they are pretty big down there 90% of the time just saying lol
Because those are the only guys treat them well & will go out with them.
i'm a black girl answering this but I noticed they are attracted to their overall swag. really it depends on the guy and the girl individually. I noticed some black guys who date out have this disturbing self loathing thing going on, so they will tend to worship white girls and a white girl who lacks confidence might be attracted to that. some of them want to p*ss their parents off. some want the stereotypical black guy for experience. and some just love them for the qualities they generally have like being masculine, stylish, blunt and fun to be around