Very friendly one day and totally ignores me the next.

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I am taking some college courses and there is this guy in my program. We seemed to hit it off right away, and some flirting was going on. Over time I found out he was shy and that he had a very bad relationship several years ago. He doesn't know I know this, as he had told another classmate who mentioned to me knowing that I like him.

Over time I noticed some confusing behavior toward me...very friendly one day, then totally ignores me the next (even looking at me and giving me what looked like a dirty look as he walked away). It has been very confusing cause I feel he likes me until he starts acting like that.

I let him know that I like him and wanted to know more about him..I had wrote a small note in a notebook. He was very sweet at first and I thought 'this is great and now I know he likes me too!'. Well, we are back to similar actions...except when he sees me he goes out of his way to acknowledge me, but then there are a few days where I walk by him and say 'hi' and he totally ignores me. I just don't know what is up with him. Anyone have any ideas?

I mean I am a very nice person and I say hi to him, wave, etc whenever I can and I am not overwhelming and in his face all the time by any means, so I can't imagine I am doing anything wrong to make him act like that...and I know it is him, but I don't know what. Sometimes I get ideas of what I think it might be going on in his head, but of course I am not a guy and really have no clue.
Very friendly one day and totally ignores me the next.
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