texting would probably be bad idea
if you really can't face him. call him on the phone. texting him, he might think this is a joke and I'm about to get pranked. cause he's gonna think you aren't serious or as serious. especially if you're really pretty. he'll probably think its some sort of joke. cause pretty girls could ask a guy out in person, and wouldn't need to resort to texting.
but on a side note. if you do end up texting. guys are more forgiving than girls. he'll probably be kinda flattered, and try to figure out what the deal is. like if this legit or not. a girl would probably be like no without a second chance if she got asked out by text. and then that's when you would recover by at least calling to talk, or meeting in person.
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lol , I'm not sure here but I've heard guys asks girls out nowadays all the time by text messages
so what's the difference. just tell him your alittle nervous about asking in person and you thought he'd be a great guy to envite as your date
First off you have his number so your probaly on good terms. Just have a small conversation bring up something a friend mentioned on homecomming then casually ask if he's going. Ask who is he going with. If he says no one ask him if he wants to go with you? Then ask for a slow dance :D
asking in person would be better because it shows that you are confident.
but, if you are shy, its OK to ask over txt, you can put an excuse in the text like "sorry I couldn't ask you in person, I had homework " or something like that :)
hope this helps u
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Person>Phone>Text>Facebook>Through a friend
Personally I wouldn't ask through a text, but since you're a girl I don't think it's a huge deal, it's kinda cute imo.
So try to muster your courage and talk to him, if not move down the list. ;)You should ask him in person. Texting more than talking is never good, and texting to ask out is just disrespectful in my opinion.
It would be better in perosn, shows you want him to come with you more than if you ask just over txt
It's a horrible un-personal idea, ideally you should ask him in person. Technology is ruining people's relationships. Face time is what you need not Facebook
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