Why do guys not have the balls to talk to a girl? (Page 2)
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Shyness and fear of rejection resulting in the feeling of humiliation. It REALLY hurts when you see a girl you're attracted to reject you, then go with some other guy standing right beside you. It KILLS confidence.
Fear, if not TERROR, of rejection is the only reason. No guy wants to approach a pretty girl, ask her out and have her, for example, laugh in his face.
It is mostly because of confidence. But sometimes it is because she is so dumb I would rather NOT talk to her. Remember...beauty only goes so far
because most times unless your obviously into the guy you shoot him down word gets around that, that always happens and people become afraid :)
Balls come with age and experience. I wouldn't talk to an under 18 year old, unless I wanted to be like a cool older brother. But I would never be afraid to approach even a group of hot women. 21 and over of course.
let's see, most boys are raised by their moms... so they act like females in some regard..
because they are only out
for themsleves, but there's
plenty of decent guys (like
me) who have the balls to talk 2 a gurl
Some guys are just shy. You can't expect everyone to be brave and confident.
same reason why girls don't make the first move. fear of rejection, pride, self esteem...the usual.
why don't you approach them instead since clearly you have the balls to do so
Most people may not agree with this but in my opinion I am a bit old fashioned in the sense that I believe guys should have the balls to talk to girls they really like. If a guy has ample opportunities to talk to me and never acts on it, it's bye bye boy. Your not wasting anymore of my time. I will not put my life on hold for you. I have had guys sending me intense signals through body language, only for me to develop feelings for them and discover that they are already paired off. So it's not fear of rejection that's the issue for me. I've just had enough of being messed around. Which is why I am quite stubborn. Lol. To all you shy guy's and girls out there just remember that life is full of rejecton but it's also full of acceptances. So please just break the ice with your crush. Don't wear your heart on your sleeve right away. Get to know that person first before you dive in. Personality is more important than looks.
Sorry had to answer Q in two parts. And when your ready to ask your crush out and they reject you. Don't be upset, just pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Don't take any notice of your friends slagging you off. After all you were the one with the courage to make the move. Plenty more fish in the sea.
also just because guys have balls doesn't make them confedent or whatever
it is mostly because when guys see someone they think is pretty they think they probably have a man already or just because they¨re to shy and don't know how to approach them girls.
because we love our ego so much