I'm what most people would consider a 'bigger girl' at a size 14, but I'm not all chub. I was very active in sports throughout my whole childhood, and have still been fairly active through adolescence into adulthood, which leaves me with muscle that doesn't just go away easily. With that being said, I DO still undoubtedly have a decent amount of 'squish' to me in any given area... until I flex, haha. If I didn't have the muscle tone I do, my size and 'squish' might bother me a lot more. But I don't mind it, and the guy I've been seeing has told me on more than one occasion that he finds my 'softness' sexy and has a hard time keeping his hands to himself, so that's even more of a confidence boost, knowing that someone else likes it.
I say don't worry about it. It's probably not as squishy as you think it is, and most certainly not in a bad way. Don't stress about the details; Try to be confident. There are guys who love your body, squishy tummy and all. And most guys are mature enough to understand that realistically, MOST girls/women aren't built like models. Most 'normal' guys are attracted to 'normal' girls. Women are biologically built to have a bit more body fat in the hip/thigh/butt/tummy area, and you probably look exactly as nature intended. Quit worrying. =]
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No, guys don't care, no guy I know of likes a model thin woman. Some cushion for the pushing is always nice.
I like a soft woman. Not chubby, but women aren't supposed to be ripped up and solid. Soft is good! ;)
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Do girls care if a guy has a bit of a gut?
Its nice for a girl to be in great shape but considering most guys aren't the old phrase "beggars can't be chosers" applies.Are you fat or not? Normal sized girls could have squish as well though. Because there is nothing hard there normally, only organs and shizz like that. So there's nothing wrong with that, being that most girls don't have abs.
A squishy tummy sounds comfortable.
I like girls with a soft belly, not too skinny not too fat but just in the middle.
no, some squish is good. hot!
no we don't
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