I have a boyfriend, he's amazing. and what I love most is that he's respectful, he's told me time and time again that he'd never intentionally do anything that I didn't want him to do.
so sex. I haven't said anything about sex yet, I'm not ready to give myself to him yet, and I don't think I will be for a while. I have my reasons, but I can't give him the reason why. And yes, most might say "if he respects you, he won't care" and it's not about him not caring, I feel humiliated saying that. I don't know what he expects out of a relationship, I just feel pressured to do it because when we see each other things get so heated and I'm sure he's horny lol, but that's the problem, I want to be able to get close to him, to cuddle and kiss and touch and everything like that, but I don't want to get to the point where he's so eager to get it on that I have to stop him, I don't know what to say or how to go about doing it. Plus I'd completly embarriss myself and him!
So how might I let him know that I don't want sex in the equation?
I'm not the most straightforward girl in the world, I can't just say - "he buddy I don't wanna have sex"
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