ALL this is driving me CRAZY!
Why does the girl I like ignore me?
ALL this is driving me CRAZY!
My side of the story: I'm a girl and my crush is this guy I like since the beginning of the year. I have a REALLY REALLY STRONG crush on him, and my mind is always on him! I'm really shy around him, and I can never look directly in front of his face because it makes my heart melt to see him. so I always have a few conversations with him as a friend and act uninterested in him...well, maybe too uninterested. I don't know if he has a crush on me back or not, but if he does, he probably feels the same way you feel! so...if you were my crush, I would be super happy/glad that you would ask me out because I have no idea on how to act in front of my crush, and if he breaks the ice, I WOULD BE RELIEVED.
think of your girl crush as me, and think about the way I feel.
she probably feels the same way as me.
and MY crush would probably feel the same way as you, IF he has a crush on me.
ask her out, there's nothing wrong with asking!
even f you get rejected, it would be worth a shot than never finding out.
hope I helped you! and you helped me too :)
But this girl I like ignores me and I'm always the one to start a conversation. And every time I try to talk to her, her friends are always there so I don't know what to do there..?
And you said you act uninterested in him, so how do you let him know that you like him or something?
Hi its me again :) thank you for your time to read my answer ^_^
So, again, my side of the story:
I told one of my close friend who is a friend of my crush about my feelings to him. So she helps me out by casually putting us into our groups of friends at break/lunch so we have a group conversation, which allows me to look/smile at him without it beng awkward! :) I am proud to able to say that we know each other more and call each other "friends" than "strangers".
Ask someone to help u!(:
so what your saying is that find a friend to help me talk to her more often yeah? or just try to talk to her myself but more often.
Thanks you're really helping me with this!
Yes, tell your close friend who is a friend of yours about your feelings. That way, he/she can help you out; like how my friend is still helping me :)
And of course, talk to her more often! A casual smile/hi in the hallways when you see her would be nice.
Dont be shy! Get to know her more! :)
*sorry I meant to say "tell your close friend who is a friend of HER about your feelings"!
First, I would advice you to start talking to her more if you can. You increase your chance of rejection if you come out of the blue asking her out, it might freak her out. If it's school related stuff, that's still fine, as long as you consistently talk to her and she's comfortable with it( Doesn't have to be EVERYDAY, but just often). When you feel like you two can easily talk to each other, go ahead and try asking her out. Don't be afraid of rejection, that's just life. Hope that helped.
That anonymous girl must really be crushing hard... tell him how you feel, if you can't do it in person write a note leave it on his desk or whatever, that way you told him and you can be out of the vicinity
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You say she cought glimpses of you. She may have liked you last year, and is a little angry that you never asked her out. Maybe that's why she ignores you?
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