How serious is a guy for you when he introduces you to his family and close friends?
I am currently in a long distance relationship, which sometimes makes it very difficult to know how a man really feels about you. We are both adults... Show More
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The fact that he let you meet his family and children is huge plus for you. I don't know a single guy who would let some girl he's only using or not sharing feelings with meet his family, much less his children. Those who have been hurt in the past, though, do tend to have a paranoia of letting a second person get that close to them. You'll have to be a little patient with him as he adjusts. He may also be acting slightly different because he's a little nervous about the possibility of a serious relationship with you. However, it's no use speculating with things like this. If you can, I'd recommend you call him and see if you could talk to him about this. You could mention that you mean not to pressure him but would like his honest opinion about the possibility of moving over there and that he seemed a little closed up about it. Communication is the key. If he doesn't want to give a definite answer or sort of avoids the issue, give it another week. If he still pushes it away, perhaps he really isn't ready for another serious relationship.
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Yea, meeting his friends AND family is a HUGE deal. He must really be serious about you if he's introducing you to his family. This shows that he likes you and views you as someone special. He wants you to meet people in his circle so that they can see how wonderful you are too!
meeting friends isn't that big of a deal. but meeting family is esp meeting his children. that's huge. but children get attached to people quickly and if he wasn't into you he wouldn't have allowed you to be in their life