I have been told more than once that I have a great personality and that I am really beautiful, but still no one seems that interested in me.
My personality is an unusual one. I am quiet until you get to know me, but once you get to know me I am usually pretty outgoing.
Is there anything that I can do to change my personality. I know that to get more people interested in me I should be more outgoing, but I never know what to say until I feel like I cannot do this until I get to know them because I have to know how they will react.
Any suggestions or comments would be appreciated :)
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Don't change a thing about yourself!
A person should never change themselves for another. If someone is going to be with you, they should do so because they like you for... well... you. If you're quiet around strangers, then that's a trait to be nurtured rather than stamped out.
And I am sure a lot of guys are interested in you, but are too afraid to ask you out.
Think about it. You're an exceptionally lovely person who has a very enjoyable personality and added with the fact that shyness/quietness adds a bit of cuteness and sweetness to the mix.
I'm sure any guy would be scared to ask you out. I'm sure most guys are afraid that you'll reject them or say you have a boyfriend!
And don't worry about being alone, I'm sure you have friends and family who support you or else who would have told you that you have 'a great personality' and is 'really beautiful?'
Keep being yourself and I'm sure you'll find guys looking your way more often with more confidence you garner within yourself.
Sorry, if I didn't give you real advice, but I do wish you luck!1