Why didn't he tell me he was married or that he still loved his ex?

I found out that the guy I had been dating was married to obtain documents so he could enter and leave a country freely.

However, it turned out it was a business marriage and he payed her to marry him. For some reason it never really worked out.

His reason for not telling me is that he did not want to ruin things between us. Pathetic :/

The last talk we had I told him it was over and then he texted me saying his previous girlfriend before me still loves him and he can't say he he's over her. That really freaked me out too. I never knew he still had feeling for her.

I need serious advice this is such a twisted story I do not know what to do..


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  • He's lied to you, whether he thought it would complicate things or not that wasn't a choice for him to make, he should have been straight with you and told you from the beginning and he should have left you to make up your own mind up about the situation...

    Now, I don't think it matters whether he is or isn't still in love with his ex, he lied to you, would you be able to trust him again? And without trust you can't have a proper relationship.

    Personally I think you should move on and find someone who is honest with you :)