You have to trust your instincts. I always give a girl the benefit of the doubt but eventually a pattern will develop and you have to make a judgment call.
I'm not if you do this, but you can't be a whiny little boy. She has a life and things to do and can't always respond immediately. On occasion, she may not have a good reply to a text you send, and may just not reply out of fear of saying something stupid. But if she is taking days to reply to you then you can probably tell she is playing a game. I do think the girls who have communication with you have some interest, even if it's just you feeding her ego. A girl who doesn't want to talk to you will just vanish. If she still hangs out with you, why not ask? Just don't be a whiny brat about it.
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Well the biggest sign that a girl is playing hard to get is if she's playing hard to get. ;D
But seriously, it's pretty self-explanatory. I don't think you have a case of a girl "playing hard to get" on your hands here. I just think she probably isn't very good at expressing herself through writing or she just doesn't like to. Maybe she isn't available to look at her phone 24/7 because she has higher priorities than looking at and sending text messages. This is kinda like when people get mad because their friend didn't say bye to them on Facebook. You can't take these silly things personally.
It does sound like she is playing hard to get if she's always down to hang out with you. Believe it or not, some girls don't like texting and don't have their phone attached to their hip like other girls. If she wasn't interested in you she wouldn't always want to hang out because to her that's a waste of time. I wouldn't worry about the texting thing, some girls just aren't into it.
It varies from girl to girl when it comes to playing hard to get but usually when a girl is aiming for that she doesn't do anything physical like kissing or holding hands or the other obvious things. Also a girl who makes it seem like there's other guys in her life that are interested in her could be playing hard to get, it just depends on the girl and how she thinks.
Maybe she just doesn't like texting.
Also, maybe she wants to show that she's independent and has her own life.
That she is not sitting around just dying to hear from you.
Also, she may like the feeling of you persuing her. You letting her know that YOU want to know how she's doing and all.
She is obviously intersted cause when you do hang out, she is bubbly and all.
Don't worry so much.
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