Do attractive girls get hit on less on a daily basis?

[Anonymous]

Basically asking if the attractive girls get hit on less ? or they get hit on more (logically makes more sense) ?

why/why not ?

[superdudeman]

Depends on the woman. Some attractive women are approachable some are not.

And it depends on how attractive they are.

And it depends on the environment.

A hot unapproachable woman is more likely to be hit on in a bar because of liquid courage then say anywhere else.

However, if the girl is ugly/mediocre she's less likely to be approached because of her looks, but more likely if she is approachable.

Being approachable is more about an attitude, a vibe and behavior of a woman, which has nothing to do with her physical looks.

Many hot women have learned the art of being what's called "ice queens" meaning they learned how to be NOT approachable because they are used to being hit on so often they act COLD.

And it works.

But even with all of that, if a woman is a 6 or higher, *meaning most men find you "attractive" then she is on average more likely to be approached than a 5 or less.

Add to the fact that most people don't talk to strangers, and add to the fact that most men don't approach a woman unless he thinks she's hot, then you have the results.

Which is, Yes if you are more attractive you have been approached more often.

And the biggest contributor to it all is the fact that most men don't approach and when they do, its more often to someone they think is hot.

Sure you have some unconfident men who approach some ugly women, but then once they get shot down by that ugly woman, (she shoots him down too because he doesn't know how to socialize and its awkward and therefore comes off "creepy") he then stops approaching on average, or at least limits them.

And that's why.

[Inthemightyjungle]

Lol that's some f***ed up logic. But I agree w the ice queen statement. I'm cute hot sexy and have been told I'm a ten. I do not get approached because I am a bitch and act stuck up...

[superdudeman]

ITs the truth. Most men don't apporach, and the ones that do are usually confident, or they wouldn't be approaching. And if they are confident, they have choice with women, and if they have choice with women, they are going to chose women that are hot. Plain and simple.

Every so often unconfident men approach women, but usually get shot down because they are not confident. Success breeds confidence, and confidence breeds success.

[superdudeman]

What a bunch of losers, I would NEVER tell a woman she's a 10.

A 10 for me is a woman whos "the one" meaning I plan on marrying her. Meaning she's got a perfect personality and perfect looks.

The closest you can get is a 9 for me.

Not to mention calling a woman a 10 seems needy and creepy.

Plus a lot of men call women 10's just to get into their pants. Most of the time its just a lie.

Ive seen men call hideous women 10's. So when I hear that its usually not true.

[Anonymous]

Not to sound full of myself, ( just confident). I know I'm attractive, but I think some guys are intimidated by confidence. And just the fact that I am so used to giving dirty looks just so they won't talk to me. I do get hit on less, because I am not open to it. I think guys can detect openness, so they will hit on a girl who is "wanting" to be hit on. Guys are also an "easy" detector. So maybe guys hit on more easy looking girls? Maybe a fear of rejection? Good question!

[superdudeman]

Men are not intimidated by confidence. They don't find it attractive, but what many women think is acting confident typically comes off as "bitchy". Most women don't understand that what they are TRYING to do is not how they are actually being perceived by men. MOst guys wouldn't know when a woman wants to be hit on even if she said "hey I want to be hit on."

[Opinion Owner]

I agree being bitchy is not the same as being confident. And yes guys are attracted to confidence. But if I'm a confident, attractive woman, and every time a guy comes up to me I give them a dirty look, that pretty says" I do not want to be hit on, or I'm tired of being hit on". Could you go up to a "ten" who had a ton of dudes around her, and not be intimidated?

[Searnd_Giddon]

SUPERDUDEMAN saves the day! Thankyou SUPERDUDEMAN! :P

[superdudeman]

No. guys are not attracted to confidence. Being submissive,is what men are attracted to, which is not exactly something a confident person would be. men are attracted to women who are diffident, which means shy, timid and unsure. Which just so happens to be the antonym of confidence.

Your assuming guys are attracted to confidence because YOU are. Guys are attracted to the opposite.

Guys intrinsically like to feel useful, like opening the pickle jar, or rescuing a princess.

[superdudeman]

How confident is a princess must a princess be if she's captured by a dragon and requires a knight to rescue her?

Also, is confidence a "requirement" for that princess to be captured?

Or is confidence more useful for the knight to save her?

THe only time men like women being confident is when she's confident in how attracted she is to him.

But even then if she comes of TOO confident in that way, men like her LESS not more.

[superdudeman]

Its actually EASIER to talk to a woman surrounded by men. There are 2 possibilities either they are all hitting on her, in which case you can play off of THAT and rescue her by pulling her away from the barrage of bore, OR they are all her friends, and then you can play off of them.

Groups of people are EASIER than one on one. Its much harder because there's less you can do, its more obvious, and typically more awkward for the woman and thus the man if its one on one.

[superdudeman]

"and every time a guy comes up to me I give them a dirty look, that pretty says" I do not want to be hit on, or I'm tired of being hit on". EVERY TIME!?

Well no wonder you have issues.

Giving people dirty looks is not confidence, its just being an asshole or bitch.

The proper way to reject a man is to do it with kindness, with a smile and girlish gigle that makes them think.. awww.. I hope she finds the right guy.

Its an art that very few women have.

[Rinaxo]

superdudeman. you are ignorant. Everybody has a differerent type, you're attracted to shy girls. That's great. Doesn't mean the rest of your population is.

[amandamaragni]

depends on if she is approachable. If she is then she will get hit on alot. If she is not then the likelyhood of her getting hit on is slim. Personality is a big part of it. If she is hot and sweet then her personality will shine through. If she is a B**** then no will like her no matter how hot she is.

[Brando]

...unless she has a rich dad :)

[superdudeman]

Oh she will be approached, then if a guy gets through that and deals with her attitude. Then he hopes that she will get better down the line, he finds out she doesn't get better, dumps her, and then the woman thinks he just used her for sex, and then she acts even bitcher for the next guy that comes along and the process starts over. And the whole time she blames men when its her fault.

[superdudeman]

And the bitcher she is the quicker the woman is going to get "dumped" Which means if she's been through a bunch of men, men are going to leave right after sex. So of course she's going to think that.

But then what else does she have to offer? Men are taking what she's offering.

[Rinaxo]

less, a lot of guys are scared of being rejected. And a lot of confident girls give off that confidence that makes them unapproachable to guys.

[superdudeman]

False, what most women think as acting confident, is really acting stand offish/ cold and bitchy.

Its not their intention, but that's how it comes off.

And if you were a man, watching a woman act like this, you would see how obvious it is.

[Inthemightyjungle]

Right, so its easy for you to go up to a "ten" and hit on her?

[superdudeman]

Yes. Its extremely easy.

If she's hot why WOULDNT I go talk to her.. she's hot! I usually let my groin DICKtate who I talk to... just like most men.