For a long time I believed that it was up to the girl to ask the question during dating "where do you see this going?...i.e. are we going to get in relationship". I tried asking that when I was younger and I always got the answer I didn't want. Women don't like to be pressured in relationships.
However there were three women I dated in the past year. Two of them I thought about going into a more serious relationship with. However I was waiting for them to ask the question. All three of those deals fell through...usually ending with no more phone calls/text...just plain loss of interest. I slept with all those girls (not sure if that means anything).
I guess I giving off signals that I'm a boy toy. Not bad thing, but I'm getting older and would like something more solid. I was also wondering if I would have asked these girls to get a little more serious these situations would have turned out differently.
Just not sure.
However there were three women I dated in the past year. Two of them I thought about going into a more serious relationship with. However I was waiting for them to ask the question. All three of those deals fell through...usually ending with no more phone calls/text...just plain loss of interest. I slept with all those girls (not sure if that means anything).
I guess I giving off signals that I'm a boy toy. Not bad thing, but I'm getting older and would like something more solid. I was also wondering if I would have asked these girls to get a little more serious these situations would have turned out differently.
Just not sure.
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