What makes a guy charismatic?

[qwer1234]

you know there are ugly and/ or old guys but a lot of girls are throwing at them. Best example is Jack Nicholson. Even when he was young, he looked like a slop, IMHO. But women say: "he's got charisma!" I wonder what makes a guy charismatic specifically?

[cutekid]

I actually don't think you

can define exactly what

makes a person

charismatic. It's an

intangible, undescribably

quality some people have

to just draw people to

them, and I agree, they can

be both good and bad. I

almost liken it to being

hypnotized. You're drawn

to them, you want to be

part of their world, you

want to make them happy.

No matter how dirty (u tinkered with

greasy engines all the time)

, smelly or foul-mouthed he

was, no matter how

obvious it was you are a

player, user, liar, cheater,

girls alike seemed to line up to

be with u. I think charisma is

a wonderful, mystical

characteristic, but also

something to be weary of if

you find yourself drawn to

someone, doing things you wouldn't ordinarily do and

you don't know why.

I think the secret behind

charisma will likely stay a

secret.

[minas]

i guess charisma is just a gift... but some people can acquire it if they ready to do so.

charisma is just a trait in the personality, like intelligence, or affection.

[poulette12]

Charisma is about your personality and the way you carry yourself. They are confident, a bit cocky maybe, optimistic, etc. It's all about selling yourself.

[qwer1234]

tell me some examples of guys you think are charismatic

[poulette12]

I don't have any examples in mind but have you ever seen or known a guy that maybe wasn't great looking but who had hundreds of chicks at his feet? That's an general example of someone who can sell himself. Charisma is about knowing who you are and flaunting it. Confidence is key.