How do "Cholo's" treat girls?

[SuckerPunch]

I guess this guy is a "cholo" but he treats me really good and always insists on paying for everything for me (not on dates or anything).

hes just really nice and he told me he had a "thing" for me but I just didn't feel the same way because of how ghetto he is, I'm just not attracted to that.

So I rejected him and just said I didn't want to date until I was out of school. but he looks at me like I'm a princess and he says I always make him smile.

And he's still really flirty with me so what is he expecting, that I'm going to change my mind about him?

[Anonymous]

i went to school with a lot of cholos but I never dated one, my boyfriend played football. well it depends on the guy. some can be really sweet and treat a girl like a princess if she acts like one. you sound like you do. and when I say "act like a princess", I mean a girl that carries herself in a respectable way and is sweet and ladylike. if you're that and he's the respectful kind of guy then he will respect you. then there are some guys who are just messed up because of their home life so they won't treat any woman right. stay away from those. but yeah just make sure you always keep your standards up and watch how he treats you and give him a chance to see what kind of guy he is

[madmisskelly]

The thing is, someone can spend all the money they want to on us and say all the wonderful things they want, but it means nothing. Money can't buy love and words are useless without actions to back them up.

Ive never dated a cholo, but if he is involved with a gang- that's no good. The devotion to the gang tends to come first. In general, getting mixed up with that crowd isn't best idea. Are there some nice people from gangs? sure, but getting into that area isn't the best idea.

Ive known some gang members in passing, and it just isn't a good lifestyle. At the end of the day, they just acted like thugs, and it got old.

[acubed25]

I've loved a gang banger before and they're not all as bad as the stereotypes make them out to be. I'm still friends with several guys who bang and they're huge teddy bears when it comes to their gf's. A lot of them are family oriented and good men but aren't given the chance to show that simply because they roll with a gang. And just to clarify, just because he looks like a cholo or reps bein a cholo doesn't mean he's a typical gang member. You should judge him based on his actions and words not based on preconceptions and stereotypes. Just be careful with your heart and that goes for any guy who attempts to be with you.

[Camilus]

When I moved to Cali when I was in 10th grade I got my first glimpse of cholos, and they are just fat Mexicans with Walmart clothes on that need 10 of their friends around before they start acting tough. They treat their women like any "gangsta" does ...he'll treat you like his bitch. If you play your cards right he might upgrade you to his "ho bag" instead of just his bitch.