Why can't a white guy approach a black girl but can stare stare stare?

[TriniLove21]

I'm 16 and I would choose a white guy over any kind but they really only stare I have some as friends but they mostly stare at me ?

[Anonymous]

To generalize and say all white guys are shy or at least shyer than black guys is quite a bit off. Most white guys don't realize that a lot of black girls are actually into them nowadays. While we are on the subject, a lot of black girls don't realize that a lot of white guys are into them now too. It seems like a question pops up on here at least once a week on the subject. Anyway, since a lot of white guys think that black girls only like black guys, they tend not to pursue them even if they are very pretty because they feel like it will never materialize (Why get rejected on purpose?). They will go after the equally cute white girl that happened to smile at him though. The higher the chance of rejection, the less likely that a guy of any race would try to talk to a girl. Once they know you are interested, they should be all over you though unless of course, they simply aren't attracted.

[scar1]

sounds a lot like me, personally where I live at least the majority of black girls only have interest in black guys so I would be a lot less likely to aproach. also if I get rejected I am almost garrentied a very harsh rejection. could be something like that

[ladylex930]

Some white guys are shy when it come to crossing that interracial line. if you notice that he's into you make the first move and prusue him. there's nothing wrong with that. be upfront about what you are looking for and go from there. so a lot of white guys these days they have never dated a black girl but have wanted too but never had a way in you know. and I know a lot of white guys just like beautiful women no matter what race they are.

[Anonymous]

they might be shy to cross the racial barrier. white guys aren't as aggressive as black guys are, they usually require more obvious and overt signs from the girl before they approach her, if at all. when you see the guy you want to approach you, give him a friendly welcoming smile. if he still doesn't approach you...well maybe he had a good reason not too (girlfriend, was just looking but not interested in buying, no confidence, etc)

[TriniLove21]

but I'm aggressive so ill normally make the first the first move but their too shy !

[urstruely]

Then go talk to him (first)! And smile!

[Cajmonét]

Bahahaha , this had happened to me befo too , if they can't come up and talk to yhu then they are most likely shy , and scarred of yhu rejecting them because of the race differences .

Note to all white doods ; black girls are interested , so come and talk to us , we don't mind . (:

[Anonymous]

because black chics don't take well to compliments...get very mad and hostile. not ladylike at all

[Thelotuslily]

I take compliments well lol just depends on the person really.:)

[IDontMind]

Then try talking to them first, and do NOT have a bad attitude, just get to talking and you will eventually find one that will like you back, don't worry.

[calmmie]

are you making them stare and stare and stare?

[TriniLove21]

yes because I'm beautiful and I am outqoinq

[Anonymous]

that's the same for all guys, not just white.