I have been going out with my girlfriend for a short while. When we started dating she introduced me to a friend of hers who lives not that far away from me. When we were first dating she would stop her friends house instead of mine the first couple times. When I met her friend she didn't seem that all interested in me but she was friendly. Now its a different story.
We both go on the moto that friends are forever and relationships do go wrong. So we keep our friends really close. She trusts her friend to come round my house randomly but all the time she is trying to make a move on me. Its the way she does it that is so menacing. She's never tryed to kiss me or said that she wants me its more stuff like:
Trying to sit on my lap, putting her head on my lap.
Grabbing me on my body.
sneaking under me bed covers saying she's cold.
Coming in the bathroom to use the mirror when I'm taking a pee.
Buying me loads of alcohol to get me drunk
Bending over infront of me constantly
Just the way she stares at me up close
Just little things but when I say are you hitting on me she says "Dont flatter myself I'm not her type". I don't think my girlfriend would beleive me. She says friends come first in her life they've been their when times are hard. Their both pretty and am glad I've survived so far. How can I tell her?
We both go on the moto that friends are forever and relationships do go wrong. So we keep our friends really close. She trusts her friend to come round my house randomly but all the time she is trying to make a move on me. Its the way she does it that is so menacing. She's never tryed to kiss me or said that she wants me its more stuff like:
Trying to sit on my lap, putting her head on my lap.
Grabbing me on my body.
sneaking under me bed covers saying she's cold.
Coming in the bathroom to use the mirror when I'm taking a pee.
Buying me loads of alcohol to get me drunk
Bending over infront of me constantly
Just the way she stares at me up close
Just little things but when I say are you hitting on me she says "Dont flatter myself I'm not her type". I don't think my girlfriend would beleive me. She says friends come first in her life they've been their when times are hard. Their both pretty and am glad I've survived so far. How can I tell her?
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Some girls act that way. I've known multiple girls that will try to hit on or to break up a friends relationship just for the thrill or the fun of it. Some girls see it as a challenge to "take your man" As soon as she knows that her friend likes you or wants to be with you, she will look at you with a different mentality. This girl is CLEARLY trying to start some sort of trouble, and if I were you, I would just tell her the truth. If she refuses to listen then don't let her come over your house alone because if you continue letting this happen, it will most likely cost you your relationship with both girls. Good luck !
talk to her and make it clear to her that you don't liek the way she's acting around you. If those girls say they are really good friends, that's just wrong. OR you could ignore her. But the only thing you can do is talk to her about it. Hope this helps!
You know if your girl really love you she won't listen to humors.
dont worry if she is the right girl for you she will accept what you are.