I'd be very careful about this... guys don't like to share GF's. As a rule of thumb that's a big no-no with guys. It's kinda of an unspoken word that if a guy likes a chick & the other guy friend knows... that she's hands off. More so if he really likes the other guy. It's 1 thing if there guys that just know each other, but if they're "friends" friends you don't hit on her. It's almost like a boyfriend of yours messing around with 1 of your GF's. Same kind of feeling.
When 2 "friends" are going after the same girl it's more about competition & ownership more than the other person. Especially with you.
Because I have been in this situation before & I was the 1 that ended being the 1 that hurt, I would ask the guy that you know that likes you more & avoid the other guy you are thinking about. You might like being the object of affection.... but don't mess with both of them at the same time because what will happen is that 1 will get hurt (especially the guy that likes you more), & you will destroy a "friendship."
Dumb example... but look at the love triangle in Spiderman between Peter, Harry, & MJ. Do you want to be in the middle of something like that?
I'd be very careful about this... guys don't like to share girlfriend's. As a rule of thumb that's a big no-no with guys. It's kinda of an unspoken word that if a guy likes a chick & the other guy friend knows... that she's hands off. More so if he really likes the other guy. It's 1 thing if there guys that just know each other, but if they're "friends" friends you don't hit on her. It's almost like a boyfriend of yours messing around with 1 of your girlfriend's. Same kind of feeling.
When 2 "friends" are going after the same girl it's more about competition & ownership more than the other person. Especially with you.
Because I have been in this situation before & I was the 1 that ended being the 1 that hurt, I would ask the guy that you know that likes you more & avoid the other guy you are thinking about. You might like being the object of affection... but don't mess with both of them at the same time because what will happen is that 1 will get hurt (especially the guy that likes you more), & you will destroy a "friendship."
Dumb example... but look at the love triangle in Spiderman between Peter, Harry, & MJ. Do you want to be in the middle of something like that?
Talk to your crush and ask him if he'd feel comfortable dating you. Obviously, if he's that one guy's friend, he'd know if his friend liked you. If he says he's fine with it, say no to the other guy. If he doesn't feel comfortable, think of it this way... No matter what, if he doesn't feel comfortable, he won't ever, especially if you date his friend. And if you and his friend break up, then your crush can't date you because you've dated his friend. So either way, just go with how you feel. You won't end up with a guy you don't like. I promise! lol.
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