Girl out of my league glancing at me in the gym?

[Hello_World]

I was training at the gym, just going about my routine in my own world kind of thing. Then I noticed this super beautiful girl keeps looking at me. When I look back she looks away. She was also hanging out in front of me waiting for a free tread mill for what I thought was a bit too long in front of me. Then I went for a swim, and then when I was reversing out of the parking lot, about 8pm now, guess who walks past, The girl from the gym, right! She's holding groceries, and in a very pretty black dress. I guess she was going somewhere afterwards? To meet her man? I look at her and she looks back at me for about 2 seconds. Look I am not ugly, people say I am attractive, but I would never approach her because I just assume she is just so out of my league. But I was thinking maybe there is a chance of me meeting her? My question is this: Why would a girl like that keep looking at me? Is it just out of interest? Is it a road kill type reaction?

[EagleMan]

I have the same problem I bench about 280lbs and do a 100lbs on my arms. I was doing a machine where I could do a lot more on my arms and very cute blond gal was totally checking me out from behind a machine throwing me cat glances she must have been about 20 years younger than me . I am married and of course did nothing about it. Sometimes you wish you weren't married but that's the way the old ball bounces. Anyway talk to her you may have nice romance or a great friend nothing bad can come out of it. Next time I see her I will talk to her like a friend.

[Shyguy333]

I think that if this girl is as beautiful as you say, you have nothing to lose. Would you rather regret not asking her at all (with the chance of her finding you as attractive as you find her) or her saying sorry I have a boyfriend or I'm not interested.

Go for it bud.

[LittleMissy93]

Are you sure she isn't stalking you...this sounds a bit strange. Either way...No one is out of anyone elses league...ever. You are good enough for her..dont put yourself down. If you say you're attractive then there is nothing at all strange about her looking at you. Please don't feel privaledged that she glanced at you a couple times, she's a person, she has flaws whether you see them or not. And I'm sure she wants to be treated like an equal.

[BennyF]

She likes you, or the very least finds you attractive. Plus, no one wears a dress like that to carry groceries. If you have a date later you let the groceries go because you don't want to mess it up before a date. Only thought is she knew she was going to walk past the gym and dressed up in the hopes of seeing you.

Secondly, your not out of her leauge if she looks at you that much.

[Ciaogirl]

just say hi and introduce yourself. the same thing happened with my boyfriend, he was def out of my league and the most popular guy in my school, and I'm like A- list, and weve been dating for 6 months now. just be confident and talk to her! the worst that could happen is that she isn't interested.

[Emperor707]

You shouldn't look down on yourself. She might be genuinely interested in you and you could have just blown your chance.

[derrick112]

Why does she look at you..? BECAUSE SHE LIKES YOU! DUH!

[Brando]

It seems that you aren't out of a "league" like you thought you were.

You're assuming she's too good for you, but you haven't even talked to her yet. Strike up a conversation next time you see her to break the ice. Maybe after that she'll be more willing to talk to you instead of just staring all the time. Show her your interest in her through subtle flirts at first, then gradually step it up.

Don't turn yourself into your own worst enemy.

[sikoo31]

if you're attractive, it might just mean she enjoys looking at you. it could just be that simple or she is interested, she could be one of those beautiful girls who doesn't realize how beautiful she is. maybe she thinks you're out of her league.

[rayshawn23]

I think if she keep staring give it a chance most likely she like you!

[Anonymous]

Maybe they are not out of your league, you should try talking to them.

[Anonymous]

if she pays attention to you like that on several ocasions your not out of her legue, she may even think your out of her legue. just try saying hi to her and see where that leads the worst case is she eventually blows you off or you end up with another friend.

[Anonymous]

well either you were doing something weird or she thinks you're attractive. if you ever run into her again, just introduce yourself and see where it goes from there.