"Smart guy" is a wide variety of people with a lot of different tastes, but from my perspective, I'd say I primarily like girls who like me (I know it sounds a little funny). Girls that look good but not necessarily too good, just good enough, as looks are, ofcourse, secondary in any serious relationship.
I don't like when girls are intentionally trying to show off how smart they are ie trying to impress me, because that usually means they aren't. I'd rather have a not-so-smart girl who is aware of it than one who is actually smarter but acts like she's the smartest person in the world. Be relaxed and discretely show it in certain situations, like it's nothing special. Usually I can see how smart someone is by the subjects they talk to me about.
Also I think girls should be girls, meaning they should be feminine and like feminine stuff. I like to listen to your inerpretation of a love novel for example, but that's only if you will listen to me ranting about cars.
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It sounds like to me that you aren't necessarily looking for a "smart" guy but a guy that has some sophistication and can appreciate the benefits of learning and experiencing new things. As for why you haven't or have had a difficult time finding someone such as this has to do with the social enviorment that you meet these guys in. In other words, you might have to socialize in places or in an enviorment where it will attract the type of guy you are looking for.
As for what a smart or sophiscated man is looking for in a woman, well the same things you are looking for in a man. As long as you express your open mindness eventually it will attract someone with the same mind set. I mean it might take some patience and a little probing (unfortunately we live in a society that doesn't appreciate and values what you are looking for in someone) but, trust me we're out there ;)
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In personality I like girls who are intelligent (both book smart and street smart), confident, are work or school oriented, have a positive mindframe (girls who cry about life being awful are very unattractive), postive energy.
In looks I like girls who take care of their body, are stylish, somewhat unique and blond hair =)
One thing I wanted to point out is the fact that we typically attract people who have a simular boundary of knowledge and maturity. Meaning that if you're very intelligent, you're probably not going to attract or be attracted to someone who is significantly less intelligent than you. Hope this helps.A pretty quiet girl. I mean quiet talking wise, when she speaks it is meaningful stuff, not slagging off other people and things like that.
But then a pretty quiet/modest dress sense. Good sense of style, but being modest about it.
A girl who likes thinking herself, and has a good sense of self, can talk quite confidently and back up and justify what she says.
Everyone is different.Someone who dresses classy. Pretty face, thin or average build but not curvy girls because they usually have dumb stamped on their forehead. Personality wise someone who is not arrogant, over confident. but someone who is homely and would meet anyones opinion of a great mother. Smart men are atttracted to women who they think would make great mothers... but I'm not sure how old you are, if your in high school then this will probably sound weird.
-Im in college by the wayI always look for intelligence and presence of mind in a women.
A thinking girl is a real turn on to someone like me.
Yes a thinking girl for me please :-)
Regards,
Paul
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