Girls, do you think it's fair game to kick a guy downstairs just for being rude/a jerk etc?

[Anonymous]

I understand the urge...but you need to understand how bad that HURTS! I mean, I've never been kicked down there by a girl for being a jerk...I've been hit there by various balls when playing sports and also a couple times when I was hoping a fence. I know of at least one guy that is infertile because of a kick from a angry gf...I mean..some guy says something you don't like...so you make it so he can't have children? ummm HARSH! Of course..if a guy ever grabs or assaults you...KICK AWAY! But what do you think about doing it for casual reasons? I'm surprised so many girls I know think nothing of it.

[Anonymous]

Well I avoid it at all costs. I have a little brother who was kicked so hard by a jackass classmate that it knocked the breath out of him and he passed out (we think he's probably infertile now but no need to check too much into that right now). So after that I avoid kicking any guy there. But I have a few guy friends who like to grab me and not let go (they're close family friends so it's not assault it's their idea of playing and they're a bunch of perves I have to put up with) so every once in awhile I gently knee them just hard enough they'll let me go. Only in extreme situations will I ever kick a guy there with the intent of hurting them but not for some guy being a jerk.

[Asker]

ooooooooo...thats so awful...im sorry to hear about your brother...how old is he? you never know..when puberty hits (if he hasn't already) things might work out. and yea..thats nt cool for guys to feel on you like that...but I appreciate your restraint when it comes to just being a jerk lol

[Opinion Owner]

He's only in 5th grade and like you said it might get fixed on it's own so my parents aren't doing too much about it. And what's worse is that it was another guy who kicked him. And these guys are like my brothers. They're not feeling me up or anything they just grab me from the back really tight around my waist and pulling me around so I can't get free. It's just alittle game they play.

[Asker]

ok...sounds more innocent..just dony knee too hard!

[Droosilla]

My first instinct would be to .. slap, I think. Or just yell a lot.. or a wimpy push that would just cause laughter at me xD I've never kicked a guy 'downstairs' so who knows lol... I suppose if they did something REALLY bad.. idk.. it is pretty harsh.

[Journeyman11]

Oh, yeah, I only hit women who do something REALLY bad too.
You know you can damage a man like that? What gives you the fucking right to do that, unless you're defending yourself from an assault? How is this any better than a man who hits women?

[CassandraTrotsky]

I've only kicked guys there maybe 3 times ever. I guess if you feel threatened or he's exposing himself it's totally fine. I know someone that might get sued for booting some guy, but she felt justified & even got an apology from the guy, so...boys beware & treat girls w/respect, girls kick balls only as needed.

[Asker]

can you imagine if I threatened physicla violence to you if you didn't "respect me"...kinda funny..i thought your sex wanteed equality but you still take the double standard when its convenient for y'all...thats why sexism still exists...we won't respect you as equal until you truly act like it.

[CassandraTrotsky]

No I don't...read what I said. Sounds like maybe you got kicked down there & are pissed off. I would be too. If I was rude to some dude & he punched me or something I'd feel the same way.

Also...not however...boys really do have to protect their privets better than what I've seen, @ least dudes my age; maybe that comes w/the experience of getting your balls knocked around.

[Asker]

ive never been by a girl..but I think its one of a number of examples where violence toward men and especially malke body parts is found to be comical or glorified...its one of many anti-male aspects that's been creeping into western society...Asian culture is one of the few that still respects men...europe and America are on their way to be being a matriarchy.

[CassandraTrotsky]

Well that doesn't apply to me or my family. We were raised by my single-father to respect both men & women.

[Martinasings12]

lmao! well I'm not the type to do that I just go for the face punch or twist arm around body then drop kick them to the ground and just saying we do that out of anger just like yall use words to hurt us, it's about the same thing because we gey hurt easier, it's like yall punching other guys when they do something it's out of anger.

[Asker]

um...i defintely think it stings more than words! plus id take a punch in a mouth to being kicked down there anyday!

[Martinasings12]

haha :D OK then! and no it doesnt! :P maybe yeah OK to guys definitely lol sorry it's the same if we get hit on our girls

[Journeyman11]

Go fuck yourself. I wonder how much words would still hurt YOU, if everyone thought it was ok or even funny to put you in so much pain you fucking collapse. Amazing, how you're trying to justify ASSAULT, as long as a woman committs it on a man. Go fuck yourself.

[haleyb]

ugh no. the only time I ever kicked a guy in the balls in a casual setting was a total accident, and I felt horrible. Yeah I might get the urge, but I'd never act on it. Or rather, I'd deck him or slap him. But that's only the guys I know well enough who a) know me well and b)bc of a will be expecting something and can evade or block or something lol.

[Anonymous]

Depends what you did. If you sexually harassed me like grabbed my ass or groped me, yeah I will kick you in the balls and not really care if you can have children. But only in extreme situations like that. I feel like if a man puts his hands on a woman to disrespect her whatever happens from that is fair game. But if it's just words, no, there are other places you can hit him.

[Asker]

well yea that's sexual assault...

[CassandraTrotsky]

For me...if I was going to hit @ all I'd go straight for those poor balls.

[Asker]

the question is when its justified.

[Anonymous]

There are times when I want to kick a guy, but I never actually do. However, back to how much it "hurts" - doesn't it hurt as much as cramps? Which we girls can deal with every month?

You have intrigued me with using this as a form of birth control. Maybe the next boyfriend I split up with will get one such surprise, for the sake of hte human race. (I'm totally not being serious)

[Asker]

well I can tsay because I've never had cramps...but I don't wish for girls to have cramps and if I could cause them I never ever would. Bottomline its dangerous and I don't like how casually girls treat it.

[Anonymous]

Its quite harsh if it was just a "joking around" sort of thing and you only said one thing. On the other hand if you were continuously insulting her even if it wasn't direct, then after a while I can understand her wanting to kick you down the stairs, are you sure she meant to actually kick you down the stairs though, she might have just meant to only kick you?

I have a guy friend and even though he can be sweet, he can also be a real jerk and I slapped him in the face because he just went on and on and on! but that was after putting up with him for a while!

[Asker]

a slap in the face cna be okay...but down there is our baby making area! it can affect the guy being able to have kids. plus its so sensitive a hard enough kick can cause cardiac arrest or shock. It just isn't jsutified in my opinion.

[Journeyman11]

Yeah, I only beat women when they REALLY get on my nerves too!

[miki94]

No! wow... Who would think this is OK. If he is rude, you can be rude too or walk away. There is no need to hit anyone. That's retarded. =/

[beautiful_fool]

Totally not cool UNLESS he's getting physical otherwise that's just a dick move (pun intended)

[Kiwifun]

I'd just yell and scream and walk away. So not worth my time.

[pathvalleygirl]

I would kick a guy in the ball if he was grabbing my privates

[Anonymous]

a lot of guys like it just same as many women do. If people have fun on both ends who cares. I would, and several of you ladies said so too

[Anonymous]

He wouldn't have to be rude even. I do it for fun

[Journeyman11]

HAHA! I punch girls in the stomach so hard that they collapse! :D Unless boys are less worth than girls, you're no better than I am.

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kicking you in the pussy would just feel really satisfying right now

[CowboyFrank]

I enjoy being kicked in the nuts for a woman's amusement.