Ok. I'm in long-distance too. I have made & still doing some mistakes...hopefully learning! A man hates when you criticize him and direct him. " I was really disapointed for the way he was choosing to start the new year off with me" wasn't a gr8 thing to say even if you're upset and frustrated. When you're always available, they take you for granted..not that they're bad ppl..but it's just men. Probably he found it too overwhelming to reply back to that criticism and would need some space to cool off. Men do appreciate serenity as far as I noticed...they don't like "unjustified" fights that we do (as they say :D). So, here he finds it that you're making somthing out of nthn.
Let me tell you how I would react to that. I wouldn't even get in contact with him. Act distant myself and wait him to initiate smth. He'll be confused and worried and would appreciate your existence in his life more. So, dear..don't overrate it like we girls do. Just relax, find other things to think about other than your boyfriend and you'll be just fine.
Trust me he'll contact you soon once you disappear :) Keep me updated!
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Honestly, if you guys have been together for THAT long, I think you should call him.
I know it's way easier said than done, trust me, but just think, it's either gonna get better, or it's not. And standing around waiting for him isn't getting anything done.
Also, most guys like it better if you make the first move. Stupid I know. -.-
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