Why do I meet boring traditional guys when all I dream of is a dynamic open minded guy like me!

anonima25
I always searched for funny dynamic guys who are full of life and free from traditions and neuroticism , because I'm very dynamic, I joke all the time, I refuse the conventional things and I'm not a traditional person, but all the guys I had, were traditional ones, boring , who don't have activities and all what they like to do is watching movies at home, going to the cinema and to the restaurants ! it is killing me, I just can't handle it anymore, it is so stressing to be a dynamic person, full of life, that you like to experience and learn new things, a versatile type, and find yourself in a relationship with a piece of ice, living life in a killing routine, it is true that they were sensitive and romantic, yeah, OK, these are very good qualities in a guy (when it is not exaggerated), but when there is nothing else, I wonder what can keep your interest in them or how you can move on , specially when you start seeing them like limited machines who keep promising to make a change in their life, to brake the routine but who instead enjoy it ! Each time I think, this one could be interesting, he makes me laugh and seems full of life, but then after very few time, the guy takes off his fascinating mask and turns out to be a traditional type !

What do you think that is in me, in my looks, etc, that only attracts this kind of guys ? Please help me , I'm desperate !
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Has anyone been through this before ? do you have any suggestion ?
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Too bad nobody had replied to me yet ! :'(
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@Bogus User, I have to say that I didn't run away fast.On the contrary, I always tried to stay with each one of them in order to discover other interesting sides of him,i had relations lasting up to one year,last one 4 years but things only got worst!
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Please I ask from all those who want to answer to my question to stop making a transfer on themselves, specially the guys! I'm not offending anyone of you! I didn't say all the guys are boring,only said that my exes were boring to my eyes not in general !
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P.S:I know that I can do activities I like on my own, or with my friends, and that I should respect and understand my partner,But if he likes things I dislike, and I like things he dislikes,how can we enjoy life together?Couples do activities together!
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"Refusing your initiatives" meaning, each time you give an idea about doing a new thing to enjoy time together, they refuse it and prefer doing the very same things they enjoy which are : movies, tv, restaurants !
Why do I meet boring traditional guys when all I dream of is a dynamic open minded guy like me!
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