How do you know if a girl sitting beside you in class likes you?

[Anonymous]

We are seniors in school she sits beside me. what are some ways I can tell if she wants to be more than friends. What are some clews that could tell me? How do you know if a girl sitting beside you in class likes you?

[tcbtutus96]

the same thing is happening with me! maybe you could give me some clues?!?!?!?! but I always look into his eyes sincerely and listen to him whenever he talks. sometimes try to catch his eye, say hit to him in the halls, she looks at you a lot outside of class, likes to talk to you or have conversations, smiles a lot. that's about it. we just daydream. haha. so if we look spacy when you talk that is a definite sign.

[Asker]

she does all that she waits until I talk to anyone and than cut in and go to talking to me. she always check on me like look at me than look past e after our eyes connect. when I talk to someone she don't look at me but she still listen to me. no matter what I say she always smile at me. when I look in her eyes while we talk she connect them for a 2nd than she smile at what ever I say and look away than look back at me. in the hallways she dnt to much speak she kind of shy. But in class is

[Asker]

different as soon as she come in class she wants to talk to me even if another dude spark a convo with her she listen than speaks to me. I ask someone a question like "what we had to do yesterday because I wasn't here." she show me what we have to do and she give me her work. in dec. she suppose to have gotten a boyfriend. but I never seen her with him in the hallways.

[tcbtutus96]

wow that is freaky because that is exactly what is happening with me except I think that he is more outgoing than me. we have only said hi once in the hallways once and now we just make eye contact with an occasional smile. and how I feel is like I want him to talk to me more and not the people around us. girls like that attention. and make a move. give her your number is she doesn't have that. I want him to give me his number because I feel like we never talk enough. or make a different kind of move.

[tcbtutus96]

then maybe that was a rumor... did you try asking anyone if she did? I'm sure someone knows! info travels fast especially in high school!

[Asker]

how would I give it to her liek it's a time and place for everything. when I miss a day of school she the first to ask where you been you always miss class. when I don't come to track pratice because of other organizations I'm in. she gets mad and say I thought you was going to pratice why yeen go and I have to explain to her. I knew her for 3 years only talked to her 1 on 1 without our mutul friends around is just this year.she don't speak to no one in the hallway. she seem shy in the hallways

[Asker]

she was tellng me thaa dudeas tring to talk to her but he didn't know that she had a boyfriend and that she went with bob(not his name). t's also on her facebook page to. I look on his profile she put on her profile marry me. so I just stop talking with her I cut it down now.

[tcbtutus96]

well for me, I wouldn't mind when and where. but put a post it on her planner or folder(inside) when she gets up so that she knows... but don't put your name on it. then she will have to guess. :P and if she is shy in the hallways, if you see her by herself just walk next to her and start a convo... like what's up? simple. :)

[Asker]

she startsconvos with me after she told me she had a boyfriend I just slowed down on my convos with her. I'm a jealous type so I feel that if you have a boyfriend why should I entertain you with my convos that's what your boyfriend is for.

[tcbtutus96]

how long ago was that? you know lots of people do that as a joke... at least at my school they do. my frineds do it a lot actually. I wouldn't really worry about the fb page because there are always stupid things on there. and since she seems like she likes you...? then why would shen have a boyfriend. I mean that truly. because obviouslyim a girl and we only like one person who at that time is the "love of our life" until we breakup. but try to find out more info about that

[Asker]

i am. she gives me all the signals bt I don't know. she makes me nervous when I talk to her about her past and fture relationships. everything that I say to her has 2 meanings she always take the freaky meaning. What can I say or do to find out if she likes me?

[tcbtutus96]

try to not talk about relationships because it sometimes sounds like you guys are trying to hard to find out info. but if you are confident I think you should maybe ask her to hang out... like just the two of you because then you guys can get closer and she might say something.

[Nadda]

She'll look at you when you're not paying attention..she's going to try to talk to you and maybe offer some help with studies or something..she's going to try to be near you (touching distance)..and she'd smile the best looking smile she has to you :)

[Asker]

you must know her cause she does all that. when I ask a friend behind me for help cause I wasn't at school. she bud right in and answer my question and she would offer/show me what they did in that class. I do catch her looking at me a lot out the corner of my eye than she will just speak.

[Nadda]

That's Great news..did you take any move ?

[Asker]

i'm thinking about doing it tomorrow. because when I asked her what's up with you and your boyfriend. she acted like she forgot she had one and she said that they barely talk so it's like they are just friends. that's when a dude behind me started flirting with her. she listen to him but still looks at me to talk to her. right now I'm seeing does she like me. so I come in class and talk to everybody when she come in I won't say nothing to her. the dude behind me ask her for a hug she hug him.

[Asker]

after she hug him she sit right beside me then she look forward out the corner of my eye I see doing the things you put in the comment^^^^.if I don't speak to her she force me to speak to her. when she hugs him it kinda makes me mad. lol. many times we came like kissing distance. but the teacher tell us to sit don. I usually turn around and she be right there.

[Jitterbug]

She probably won't sit beside you out of shyness. Probably behind you, so she can look at you all she wants. But most likely she'll just sit away, but she'll look at you once in a while--Then she definitely likes you. :)

[MrNameless]

What everyone else said..

Possible signs: Lots of eye contact, smiling, flirting, touching you, hair flipping... Also look how she sits. Some mimic the guy.

also if her shoulders, knees and legs are facing towards you, there's a good shot that she likes you.

[Asker]

i notice recently when I talk to her she keep twirling her hair and our putting her hair on one side of her shoulder while having the other side empty. when we come to class she sits in a desk and have one of her legs crossed towards me.

[MrNameless]

I'm 9 months late.. But.. Yeah, twirling hair is a HUGE sign!

[shawnzyp]

pass her a note and tell her to circle one of the options...

the note should read as...

Do you like me ?

(circle one)

Yes! No?!

and now you have your answer

[Asker]

that's elementry.

[skybaby0223]

lol I actually like a guy I sit next to in class... I'm always trying to start conversation with him and sometimes I can't help but look over at him lol.. and anytime we make eye contact I can't hold my smile in. Look for those signs

[suavaye]

one thing I used to remember in HS was if she learns yur name fast, makes eye contact a lot and will walk with yu in the hallway without leaving yu for her friends she's into yu someway or another

[destroyer]

Lots of eye contact, smiling, she puts herself in close proximity of you all the time

[Asker]

yea I sit beside her and yesterday I tried an experiment on her. I didn't say nothing to her or anyone else. just minded my own bussiness. she kept looking in my direction for like 5 mins. straight before she finally spoke to me and tried to hold a convo

[lananoel]

Talk to her for a few weeks tell her your interested. See where it goes..

[Asker]

we been talking for 2 years never talked one on one until now. I asked her,"what you and your boyfriend bob(not his name) doing for Valentine's day. she said how you know I went with him. I said you told me. long story short she went to telling me they don't communication and that she basically single. I went to talking to her and the dude behind me tried to flirt with her cause he heard what she was telling me so end of class I end up walking in the hallway with her and she gave me a kiss out

[Asker]

ot of no where so I guess I know how she feels about me

[lananoel]

Shes obviously interested.. Make a lunch date.

[Asker]

i did we doing something for Valentine's day. but not to romantic cause she still in an open relationship but to me a relationship is a relationship

[lananoel]

Thats good I appreciate your respect for her relationship. Good luck with the Valentine's day gig.

[Asker]

thanks

[Spongebobssocks]

Can she not help herself from smiling? Is she able to give you eye contact?

[Anonymous]

ask her to form a group group with you. study dates are a good way to get things started

[Asker]

i didn't have to she put me in 1 with her.

[Nadda]

I think the hugging part is trying to make you feel jealous and to move you a bit...try spending more time with her

[Asker]

yea she hugged him today and I looked off and she came and sat down beside me and went to talking to me first. we talked for an hour and 10 min str8 at 1 point we paused after I said somethen than said something at the same time and we laughed about it. she went to telling me about how her and her current boyfriend of a month she gone break up with him because they are 2 different people and that she went with him cause of he was a nice person. than she went on to tell me about how she think about ha

[Asker]

hving dreams about having sex with celebraties are seeng people have sex. than she went on to tell me that boy think about sex every 20 seconds which is not true maybe 40 secs. lol. she went to just telling me about her past and stuff.

[Anonymous]

Does she frequently look at you?Smile at you?Make conversation with you?Touch you?

[In_Trance]

ask her