If you are wondering why she she seems mad at me, its because I though that she didn't want to talk to me at all because she would ignore me when I tried to talk to her, so I just stopped talking to her and moved on. We both take the same class and sometimes I see her on campus and she always seems like she is mad at me, when I see her and she sees me and the few times that I have tried to talk to her.
i got angry at my guy friend not long ago, and almost ignored him... but I would never in a million years like him in that way. so it doesn't neccessarily mean she likes/liked you.
thats not to say that she didn't/doesn't like you. she could have thought there could have been something between you two, when you were flirting, and you did something or other that made her frustrated/annoyed/angry. like talking to a girl she doesn't like would do the trick? I don't know, just suggesting :)
best option is to go and straight up ask her. that sorts everything out, and it doesn't have to be awkward.
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it could mean that she heard something about you and is pissed about that. I doesn't have to mean she likes you. who knows she could just be a one of those people that always has a stick up their butt. if you were friends before this incident then it could either be the first option I said, or that she was into you and is pissed for the reasons everyone said before me.
It could be for a variety of reasons. Perhaps she was waiting for you to ask her out and you didn't when you had the chance? Maybe she was playing hard to get and is annoyed that you have stopped giving her attention? Maybe you said something that upset her? You should backtrack to any signs she gave of flirting, or if you said anything particularly offensive when you talked to her. You should then find your answer.
Good luck.
No, a woman can be mad at you for what you say or how you act. I know this because I have upset many woman that I know do not have feelings for. That might mean you are just friends.
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Not necessarily. A woman I used to work with was angry at me most of the time. Her husband also worked with me and he confided in me that she was angry at the world, not just me, because their sex life had gone to hell.
Maybe, or maybe she’s mad at you for some reason
I was shocked to see this question, because I'm facing this same situation with this guy right now.. And i reacted the same way as that girl did. Eeek!
But to answer your question, she probably does like you with the signs you provided.
Personally I regret how I handled the situation, but girls may ignore a guy for various reasons.. Girls often do it to either catch a guys attention, she is royally pissed off over something you did, she gave up on him, she learned something she didn't like about him, she didn't think he was interested (since you mentioned you ignored her), or she is jealous (she could have seen something on your social media or saw you with another girl).
To fix this you should go up to her and ask her why she is mad at you. Tell her you appreciate her and how you feel about her. And just apologize to her, tell her you are sorry if you hurt her in anyway and that it wasn't your intention. Be honest with her. And talk to her one on one, and talk to her. You could try getting her something too, if you were interested in a relationship with that girl.This is probably way too late but I just want to say that she prob likes you, as I once really really liked this one guy.. He would always talk to me and flirt with me, but when he'd ask me to hang out or go out I would reject him because I was super shy. Then suddenly I just started ignoring him, after realizing I really liked him and when he'd talk to me I'd angrily snap back at him in short answers, I tried not to but whenever I talked I just would do that and then he thought I hated him after a while and ignored me also.. But I really really really liked him, I was just a shy loner and couldn't act normally :(((
So maybe similar thing happened with her... Maybe she really likes you but acts like she hates youPeople don't change for no aparanent reason. There's always an explaination. Perhaps you rubbed her the wrong way unintentionally by saying or doing something she took offence to, or there's someone else she's interested in and thinks that by being off with you, you'll take the hint and just leave her alone. Possibly she's heard some backchat from one of her mates about you, and has decided to believe them rather than hearing it straight from the horse's mouth. Or maybe she's just got a lot on her plate and doesn't need you fawning over her. I don't know I'm just speculating here. If you really want to know, the only way is to bite the bullet and ask her outright rather than pissing in the wind on this site.
That depends on why your angry at dude, I mean are you wearing your this is my attention getter and he paid it no mind, or he's not bug eyed every time he sees you, or he says hey want to have lunch with me and you take it as he's into you when he just want to have lunch shoot the shit with you, you know casual hey pal good buddy how you been long time since we chatted, in some instances yes a female tend to explode on someone she's into for no reason even the one she's into have no clue you are or does not show that interest she's wanting openly, why I say it matters not who makes the first moves men or women if your getting something for someone tell them not go days weeks months or years in torture wonder do they or not, say something, write a note saying something like, I like you do you like me and put a yes box and no box for them to mark which one and go from there, easy and you can sleep better knowing ìl if it's a romance coming or next dude on your list to target,
same thing with me. hung out, went to lunch and did things. She stopped talking to me one day. I have some idea's. I never made any moves on her, argued with her or asked her out on a date. She stopped talking, body language was off and no eye contact. Anyways I asked what the problem was she said "nothing". Anyways I know what nothing means "something". So I left it alone. Also during this time I am with someone.
Stopped talking to her. She in turn continued the same. Now I think I am doing her a favor. She act like she is mad at me. I see her looking at me from time to time. She talks to her friend about me. She eaves drops on my phone calls " I sit next to her". She ask her friend where I am if I am not around "where I am at".
So in my opinion "yes she has feelings for you". I will tell what I am doing " moving on" !She could be mad if she thought maybe you were just trying to get into her pants and you just stopped because you couldn't. She probably thinks you were playing her so she just doesn't want to be part of it. You could just ask her if she's mad at you.
honestly girls do this because they want your attention..but she shouldn't ignore you each and every single time
if she keeps ignoring you, try sitting beside her in class and tell her to listen to you for a minute and say what you feel..along the lines of you're feelings for her and what you want from her and why you don't understand why she's ignoring you and that you really want to know and understand why...this will make her see that you do care enough to track her down and really try to get an answer from her
if she still ignores you tell her that when she's ready to talk to call you or message youi guess she has interest in you, maybe she just was not sure in the begining and was trying to see how long time you`d chase her, sometimes girls do that not bcs they wanna play but bcs they want to test your love and interest.
so if I was you i`d try to start communication with her intensely again.only if you want of course;)
after you`ll restart it , she`ll start to be more flirty and there you go!
make your move then!
wish you good luck.Not neccessarily in a lover or sexual way. However, I am interested in them in some way, for sure. Like, if my friends talk about how blondes are better and I am a brunette, I get mad at them, because hey, I am also pretty just because I am not blonde. It does not mean I wanna date or f them. Or if a friend wants to date a completely awful girl, I can get judgmental, and not because I wanna be their girl, just because I care for them and I dont want them to get hurt
There’s not a lot of details to tell, but for sure mind games get a little tiring and unattractive. Best thing to do is approach her in a friendly and open ended conversation to check in if everything is okay and if you guys can hang out/exchange numbers :)
On the information provided , I'm pretty sure she does fancy you , I think she wants you to ask her out , that's why she is angry.
I've always found , the ones who said they hated me , the situation was close to opposite , including one house mate ( who told everyone she despised me ) then got super angry when I slept with her friend , but I ended up consummating the situation when one night I went to her bedroom and just started kissing her.
Me 2 the same situation... not even understanding this girl... she blocked me in fb after 2 months of break... she came up to me and said "HI" ... i couldn't understand what should i say... i confused and little bit anger on her... she use to stare at me in the class... once we got eye locked for a moment.. when i come near to her she use to hide her face... i stopped talk to her for a month... then i messaged her in whatsapp... she couldn't reply but just see the message... it went on for week... its really so painful and i dont even understand... what is her feeling... ? pls help me in this !!!
Sounds to me like she feels rejected by you or seomthing. I don't know exactly what's going on but if you kind of blew her off to move on, maybe she is hurt by this and comes across as mad since it's easier this way. Maybe she liked you but was acting weaird in the beginning so she's offended now. Give more detials since it's confusing but I'd guess that she likes you or is mad you're ignoring her since she wants some sort of friendship/relationship from you.
Sometimes when I like a guy I act a little turned-off by them, I'll admit. Usually because I'm afraid I opened up too much about my feelings toward him.
Or maybe she heard you were kind of a player, and thinks you flirt around with other girls.Could be yes. If I have feelings for a guy and he doesn't act the way I would like, I also tend to get frustrated and cranky about it ;).
You are delusional and need to be slapped back into reality.
So you are saying, “ If a boy is angry at me? Even though we are not dating then they have feelings for me?”
Are you dumb?It sounds like she's just creeped out by you or something..
There was never a connection, therefore there's no reason for her to act like that towards you.It may be that she is just annoyed with you. But in my opinion there is probably some feelings/jealousy etc at play , I know that I have had some feelings for guys that were just friends before and things they did made me angrier than just having no feelings at all, if that makes sense!
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