You mentioned a few areas which caught my attention
"I'm thinking jealousy" and "he's confused how he feels"
Sounds like you weren't attracted to him before (or maybe you were, but just were uncomfortable to wear that on your sleeve).. And "my assumption" is that you weren't immediately following up with your interest when he was being sincere and showing interest all along.
It also sounds like that guy has been through some sh*t with disappointment.. Obviously he's rude/shady because he originally cared (we only react negatively when we have an issue with what's going on - not "just because" - there are exceptions to that statement, like assholes)..
You asked what you can do: Call him.
What's the worst that's gonna do? He may not answer, maybe he does and tells you off, etc.. But you should know by now whether or not this guy is worth it.. With that knowledge you need to put in the effort necessary.
If YOU truly feel he's a good guy, and all your instincts think that, sometimes you have to put in a little "extra effort" to win him over, or to take risks that you otherwise wouldnt, I say that because there are a very few good people left in this world - I believe they should get a little reward for standing behind their morals and being upstanding people.
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okay dear...send me him that smss...
"what makes some people dearer is not just the happiness and joy that you feel when you are with them, but the pain when you miss them and can't be with them...missing you with all my heart".
And tell me as soon you get any reply.
Take care
Well there's gotta be a reason for not communicating. I would focus more on yourself and keep yourself and your mind busy. Don't wait around for some man. Trust me I did that and done doing that. Your number one so act like it... Do you. Its your terms that this man is on not his. If he doesn't call or text his fault not yours. Men come around more, when a woman focuses on herself and her plans for the future. Men run away when a woman sitting around waiting and waits and clings on to them. If your busy keep yourself busy with friends family school work take a massage class. Do something for you the men will come. Men are turned on by successful, smart, independent women.
are you sure you got all the information we need in this question? Like why would he be jealousy? what caused him to be jealous? also what do you mean everything was fine when you said ''goodbye'' meaning when leaving his house or a date or goodbye meaning break up? But if a man likes a girl, he will do anything in his power to get with her. You text her and ask what's wrong with him straight up.. don't do it in a questioning manner. Just play the ''worried boo.'' see how responsive or not he will be and if it doesn't change anything, you better move on.
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