I have been talking with this girl for over a month. It got to the point where we were talking everyday for about a week. I thought this is going good so I asked if she wanted to do something. She said she is busy with school and work but maybe later. Then she made up an excuse to get off the phone. I texted her the next day and she responded.nothing big though. The problem is she hasn't called in 3 days and I just though it was weird how we just stopped talking. Maybe she has been busy and all. Should I call her or does this sound like she maybe isn't interested? But iif she wasn't interested why would she call me before this? Would I seem desperate if I call and just try starting a normal conversation?
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No I don't think this means she isn't interested in you. Maybe she is telling you the truth about being busy with school and work. There is also a chance that she is nervous about you asking her out. Maybe she is scared about taking a chance with you because you are her friend. She might be worried about what will happen to your friendship if a relationship doesn't work. I think you should call her. I don't think that she will think you are desperate. She needs to know how you feel and you need to know how she feels. Just talk about it with her. That way if things work out and a relationship grows, great and if it doesn't you can still be friends. You will never know what could have been if you don't give it a try. Call her and talk.
If I were you I would just lay off a little bit. Try and relax some and just realize she might truly be busy. Jumping to conclusions is not a good way to start a relationship anyway. You have to have trust. If you don't talk to her in another few days try talking to her about things. Ask her if anything is going on in her life that she needs to talk about or if she needs help getting things done. Then, she'll think you're wanting to help her instead of just wanting to date her. Girls love it when guys lend a helping hand. Plus, it makes them appreciate and like you even more.
Good luck!
wait for her to call you. She said she was busy. She doesn't seem too interested though because she hasn't called you in 3 days. if I was truly interested in a guy I would call him that day or the next day( if I was really busy). personally if I don't call you within a day its a signed that I'm not interested.