So, let's say she suggested we met up for dinner. She picked up the check afterward. I thought this meant she's interested - GREAT! So I asked her out. Then she ignored my calls/texts/emails. I've always been told that if a girl rejects you three times maybe it's time to move on (instead of being a stalker). So I let it go even though I'm sadden by it - I like her dang it! A few months later she would call me up, and the cycle repeats again:
1) She gets in touch and wants to meet up
2) She pays for everything
3) She disappears when I want to follow up
4) She reappears after some time. Start from step 1 again.
This has happened 3-4 times already.
I'm totally confused: what's in it for her? Why on earth would she make plans with me and pays for everything, then avoids me when I want to see her again? Not like she's rich or anything. And if I mention I'm seeing someone (during one of our "breaks" I met someone) she seemed sad - she split the check with me that time. I can't help but think she at least a little bit interested too but the fact that she avoids me doesn't add up.
Many thanks for anyone who could help out!
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