I'm friends with two brothers. One is my age and one is a few years older (by a few I mean less than 5, so he's not too old for me). I met A in high school and we became friends. Then I met B more recently, about a year ago.
A and B are both single and were throughout this whole thing. Plus I know they talk about me to each other, I don't know how much but they have both said to me at times "My brother told me X Y or Z about you" or "I heard ____ about you from my brother"
When I first met B I was friendly with A but not that close even though I had known A for a few years, and B is a shy guy, my friends and I knew he liked me but it never worked out.
A and I weren't as close back then but he would always tell me to stay away from B and I could tell he was very jealous. In the past few months I have barely spoken to B but A and I became very close and I was almost positive he was into me. A few days ago he told me he likes me. Since A and I became close, B will now randomly try to speak to me again and stuff, invite me to go places, even though now A and I spend a lot of time together, more than B and I ever did.
Is this some weird competition? I know they both liked me because the whole thing with B happened before I was even close with A and A is much more recent. Are brothers more likely to be attracted to the same girl? Or would this happen with two guys who are best friends too?
I hope I don't sound conceited. I am confident in myself that I am likable and attractive, but it is internal confidence. I just find it weird that two brothers both like me, especially since they have such different personalities. It almost feels incestuous. I never even kissed or had a relationship with either one at this point. I know they're both into me though.
What do you guys think?
A and B are both single and were throughout this whole thing. Plus I know they talk about me to each other, I don't know how much but they have both said to me at times "My brother told me X Y or Z about you" or "I heard ____ about you from my brother"
When I first met B I was friendly with A but not that close even though I had known A for a few years, and B is a shy guy, my friends and I knew he liked me but it never worked out.
A and I weren't as close back then but he would always tell me to stay away from B and I could tell he was very jealous. In the past few months I have barely spoken to B but A and I became very close and I was almost positive he was into me. A few days ago he told me he likes me. Since A and I became close, B will now randomly try to speak to me again and stuff, invite me to go places, even though now A and I spend a lot of time together, more than B and I ever did.
Is this some weird competition? I know they both liked me because the whole thing with B happened before I was even close with A and A is much more recent. Are brothers more likely to be attracted to the same girl? Or would this happen with two guys who are best friends too?
I hope I don't sound conceited. I am confident in myself that I am likable and attractive, but it is internal confidence. I just find it weird that two brothers both like me, especially since they have such different personalities. It almost feels incestuous. I never even kissed or had a relationship with either one at this point. I know they're both into me though.
What do you guys think?
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