I met this guy at a small get together a few nights ago. I thought he was cute, and he was flirting with me. We both had been drinking but not a large amount. At one point (I don't remember the context), someone said I should kiss him and I said I didn't want to do that because we had just met, but I did kiss him on the cheek.
He asked me for my number at one point, and when everyone was going to bed he texted me and asked if I wanted to sleep in his room, and he suggested we cuddle. I agreed and met him in his room.
We cuddled all night, and he didn't try anything with me. He didn't try to kiss me, get up my shirt, or in my pants. I would have stopped him if he tried, but he didn't, which is what confuses me a lot. I'm happy he didn't, but I just expect guys to try to do something I guess.
It was really nice, and we laid together for a few hours after we woke up, still cuddling. Then he had to get up to shower and get ready for work, and I went to the living room to talk to my friend. His roommate drove him to work, and he just smiled at me before he left.
When my friend drove me home, he asked if the guy tried to make a move on me, and I told him no. He replied that he was 'proud' of the guy or something. Then my other friend asked the same thing about him, and when I said he didn't try anything he said he was really surprised he didn't try anything, and he said the guy was a player.
A few hours later he texted me asking how my day was going, and we texted a little bit, but nothing too significant.
I don't know the guy very well, but I'd like to so I can see if I have any interest because I thought he was pretty cute and he was a good cuddler.
So guys, would you cuddle all night with a girl, and for a few hours in the morning after you wake up, but not try to do anything with her?
He asked me for my number at one point, and when everyone was going to bed he texted me and asked if I wanted to sleep in his room, and he suggested we cuddle. I agreed and met him in his room.
We cuddled all night, and he didn't try anything with me. He didn't try to kiss me, get up my shirt, or in my pants. I would have stopped him if he tried, but he didn't, which is what confuses me a lot. I'm happy he didn't, but I just expect guys to try to do something I guess.
It was really nice, and we laid together for a few hours after we woke up, still cuddling. Then he had to get up to shower and get ready for work, and I went to the living room to talk to my friend. His roommate drove him to work, and he just smiled at me before he left.
When my friend drove me home, he asked if the guy tried to make a move on me, and I told him no. He replied that he was 'proud' of the guy or something. Then my other friend asked the same thing about him, and when I said he didn't try anything he said he was really surprised he didn't try anything, and he said the guy was a player.
A few hours later he texted me asking how my day was going, and we texted a little bit, but nothing too significant.
I don't know the guy very well, but I'd like to so I can see if I have any interest because I thought he was pretty cute and he was a good cuddler.
So guys, would you cuddle all night with a girl, and for a few hours in the morning after you wake up, but not try to do anything with her?
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This same guy ended up texting me all week. We just did a back and forth thing. I would text him, sometimes he replied right away, sometimes it took a while, but I didn't bug him or anything. There was some light flirting, but not a lot(I've realized I've
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rushed into my past relationships so if this turns into anything I don't want it to happen too quickly). I couldn't talk to him this weekend, but I said we should hang out this week before spring break cause I won't be here. I asked him if he thought of
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anything when I got back, and he said he was busy this week, but he said maybe we could hang out on the weekend. I said I wouldn't be here this weekend, so he said maybe thursday. I said it could work, but then he said he doesn't know what he's doing, so
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he'll have to wait until later in the week, so I just told him to let me know. I don't know if he's honestly trying to find time to hang out with me(I haven't seen him since last weekend), or if he's trying to blow me off but in a "nice" way.
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