When do little boys start noticing Girls?

I ask that because I went to a B-day party yesterday and I was looking really pretty and it was my dad's friends birthday and when we got there, I sat on the couch and this little boy probably 6 or 7, really cute came to me and was staring and acting shy when I would ask for a hug then sat next to me, leaning on me and then even putting his arms around me holding me and clinged on to me for a long time and through out the party, he would come to me and pull on me and hug my legs. I don't even know this little boy. He is normal but seemed like he liked me so much. So then later he came up to me and asked me to be his girl and I told him no I'm too old. He just kept asking me all day and at the end, he even asked if he coiuld come with me and I told him no and he started whinning and begging pulling on me hard for me to say yes and I kept saying no. He even asked his Mom. How can they know that they like girls so young? He look like a baby. Is this normal for a 6 or 7 year old? I was shocked how persisitant he was on trying to be with me lol. He was so sad I wouldn't be his girl.


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  • 2mo

    When I was 5 or 6 I found a book on the human body. It was a children's book, and they foolishly printed diagrams of a girl from baby to puberty to adult. In the nude.
    I was pretty engrossed in it, for reasons unknown to me at the time. Unfortunately, I showed it to my classmates, and one of them must have stolen the book because I couldn't find it anymore.
    I was still pretty engrossed though, and tried to draw a naked woman, which for some reason was hanging from a ceiling fan by a noose. Don't ask me why, I don't know either. I got called into the teacher's office.
    But to answer the question, I didn't notice girls as "girls" until 3 years later. Lol.

What Guys Said 13

  • 2mo

    I had my first crush at age 6. Before that I didn't distinguish girls from boys very much

  • 2mo

    when i was 7 or 8

  • Age four.I hardly remember it, but supposedly I kissed a girl at school and it made her cry. ^^;

  • Fourth grade.

  • When they pinch our toys at 2-3.Notice sexually 13/14 I suppose. Girls started asking me out at 10/11 (which my parents used to tease me rotten about) so they definitely developed faster than I did.

  • we notice girls around 5 or 6 but we don't care about it until about 12-13 and I didn't "notice" a girl until I 14.

  • i can remember liking girls around six or seven. obviously it was just kiddie crushes but about six or seven sounds right to me.

  • i started noticing girls when I was like 5. I remember trying to do the same thing you said to an older girl lol. by 6 (1st grade) I remember being attracted to a couple of the girls in my classes. I of course didn't admit it til I was a little older! it's normal though

    • 2mo

      I personally just admired them and I even had "crushes" when I was 6. The physical desire was not there, though, it was purely platonic, so to speak.

    • Yeah he did that besides the kissin but.. I wonder what he would have done if I really did take him like he wanted? Can't imagine why he asked that like he knows what to do lol

    • i can really say that I've been attracted ever since I could remember. I didn't understand sex or anything but I remember feeling a strong attraction and wanting to hug/grope/kiss them lol

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  • 7 for me. First girl I was attracted to.First time I got slapped too =)

    • well when his auntie heard him ask me to be his girl, she fussed at me saying that's why you getting in trouble at school so it seems like he is realyy girl crazy, got a problem controllin himself or something. He is a pretty boy literally so when he gets older he will definently break some hearts.

    • It's different for every guy.And it depends on how his family is. If he has an older brother who has a girl it's likely that he'll start to notice them sooner that an only child (like me)Or if he has a lot of friends that are girls that would make it take longer for him to see them as different.

    • I think 7 or above I kind of can get you startin to like girls just a little but 6, 5, or 4? I think the little boy was 5 ireally doi now because he looked like a baby.

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  • My lil' brother started noticing females "like that" when he was in 2nd grade (abt age 7). I remembered on a family cruise he was all proud telling us how he slow-danced with a girl @ the kiddie area lol.

    • 7 is OK but 4 or 5? come on. There babies. I thought it was all in the mind and you odnt know anything at that age but playing.

  • "Depending on the sexual maturity of the boy, self-stimulation to cause deliberate erections can start anytime in childhood."gonna be honest. I was sexually attracted to my child care worker when I was 5/when I was in kindergarden. I wasn't attracted to girls my age, but the child care worker made me hard (i'm not kidding). I humped the floor when she was near me.

    • wow this is really shocking to me. I just learned something.

    • i always wondered if other boys experienced the same (at such a young age). I kind of ignored the girls my age, but I tried to get my child care worker's attention. I even wrestled other boys just to impress her (tried to show dominance). I'm really ashamed and I hope I won't see that woman again. she probably remembers me/thinks I'm a perverted freak, but I couldn't help but being horny when I saw her.

    • i couldn't explain the feelings, but when you get hard (obviously you don't know how it feels) you are horny and you feel the need to play with yourself. the penis (the glans) is very sensitive and I noticed this at a very young age. it simply felt good. I humped the bed and even had dry orgasms while fantasizing about her feminine body. I didn't get hard for no reason. the fact I wasn't attracted to girls my age/the fact I was attracted to grown women shows I was sexually mature.

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  • Like 10.

  • Age 4 for me. Yeah, I started out young.

    • wow I guess every boy is different

    • Nope, my parents divorced when I was 3. They fought a lot and I really didn't see my dad when I was young. I just had a feeling and went with that. Sure we didn't fool around but kissed a lot.

    • lol wow I never knew that could be so young when you don't know a thing. I think it has a lot to do with what your parents allowed you toi see or how they were, the shows you watched, things like that

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What Girls Said 6

  • 2mo

    My son is 5 and he is girl crazy. It started at 3 when he told me that "that girl is beautiful." He gets this really big shy smile and his eyes brighten when he sees a pretty girl. He says he likes girls with long hair. At the same time, he doesn't want anyone else to know he finds girls pretty and he doesn't want them kissing him just yet. LOL.

  • Last summer I was out in Colorado visiting family friends. We were going rafting and there was a kid there about 10 or 11. He was a cute kid, but I could see him watching when I took off my top (bikini underneath). Throughout the rest of the trip, he was pretty fond with me I guess. So yeah. lol

  • I was watching “The Lion King” with my friends four year old. He was snuggled up against my legs on the couch. Out of nowhere, he suddenly turned around and moved his face right up to mine like he was going to give me a kiss. With his little mouth closed, he moved his face around in front of mine. It was a bit odd but very cute. It seemed like he was mimicking what he may have seen adults do. I said something about the movie and he turned back. A few minutes later he turned and stood on the couch gazing into my eyes... This was not a familiar look. It was a wide eyed, dreamy, lovey look that one would not expect from a four year old. Then, all of a sudden, he pulled his pants down and looked down at his boner! When he looked back up at me I excitedly asked him if he wanted a peanut butter and jelly sandwich. I had to run to the bathroom because I didn't want him to see me laugh! Yup, true story...

    • I am just so dumbfounded. Totally I mean its almost sickening

    • ...for when she has privacy. I know, unbelievable!

    • Yup! His little penis was sticking straight out. LOL! I don't think he knew wth was going on. I didn't want him to think he did something wrong... so I distracted him with his favorite food.My 3 y/o niece likes to play with her clit. Once I had to ask her to get her hand out of her undies 'cuz we were in the grocery store hahahaha. She hasn't ever seen her parents do anything... she just realized she liked it one day & has had a tendency to play with herself ever since. I just tell her that is fo

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  • jk, I was 4 and he was cute! ;)

  • Little kids have different desires than pubescent kids. I went somewhere the other day and had 4-5 grade girls hugging me and fawning all over my hair and shoes, etc. They weren't "flirting" ... they wanted a certain kind of attention and admiration. A little boy like that probably wants some kind of comforting and affection that he has seen on television on in his life as means to getting that kind of attention. Perhaps his mother is busy with a new boyfriend, etc.

    • Yeah that sounds about right. I mean, its cute when they are young like that but if he was my age or a teen, all that begging and clingyness would have turned me off. Id be flattered but that would definently be too much

    • Yeah! Even little babies gaze longer at attractive faces. Admiring beauty is something humans are hardwired to do. I think he saw some kind of comfort and caring in you that he feels a need for. I think the emotional component must be there from the start, though. Puberty probably just switches it into a different dimension.

    • Hmmm...bc he was on me like white on rice as soon as he saw me. But yeah I know he not thinking about sex but just liked me because I was pretty. I just never had a young boy like that stalk me so much and then cry that he couldn't come home with me and don't even know me. Before I left, his family was getting on him about being all up on me all day and one lady even said next time come Ugly. lol! So I was looking good but to a baby? That was weird in itself.

  • I think they start liking girls in a 'DATE MEEE! T.T' kinda way at around 10-11 years old :) That's from personal experience anyway :D

    • yep he will.

    • I feel sorry for all the girls his age then :) That troublesome munchkin ha ha XD He will forever be a mini heart throb

    • Yeah it seems that way. And also when he first asked me to be his girl, one of his aunties heard and got on him about that saying that's why he is getting in trouble in school. So that let me know right there that he is already girl crazy and does this with girls he sees is attratcive. He will definently be a heartbreaker because the little boy is a pretty boy.

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