Why does he want more picture of me?

[Bubbles]

ok a guy friend that I have known since highschool, we have been talking and such. he has gone back to my picture of myspace and left too coments saying I was cute. He gave me his number and I gave him mine, we talk all the time. Anyways, he had asked me for a pic awhile back so I gave him one, but he said I hide my face I don't get that. And then a few weeks ago he asked for anougher he said I could send anything so I sent a somwhat naughty pic. But why does he keep wanting pictures of me? He know's what I look like? Could there be more to this or what?

[inflammen]

Well, the comical answer is:

I have no idea. Send some naughty pictures to my phone and I'll figure out why he wants more.

The more serious answer is:

He almost certainly wants to see you/your pictures because he's attracted to you. He wants to look at you. I think that much is obvious.

The reason why he constantly wants more pictures is probably a derivative of that. Pictures aren't very satisfying. Have you ever watched someone sitting still? It isn't interesting. A picture conveys that you are attractive, but you can't watch, feel, or interact with a picture.

Think of it like chocolate. You can sniff something that smells chocolaty, and it's great, but that's not what you really want out of the chocolate so you aren't satisfied. The same way, he can look at your picture and it's great, but he wants more than just a still image of you. Since he can't have more (at least not when you two are in different places texting), he isn't satisfied and at least wants more pictures.

I hope that is clear. If it isn't, let me know and I can give you some different analogies or try to rephrase it.

[Bubbles]

Nope.. I undertstood all of it lol.

[UltraDramatic]

You're seriously asking if there could be more to this? Of COURSE there's more to it. He wants a "somewhat naughty" picture of you . . . what else do you think he's after?

Do you two ever get the chance to hang out together, or do you live in different areas? And if you do live close enough to hang out, why aren't you?

[Bubbles]

Yes he live's here. I was supposed to go see him a few weeks ago but we both had a nasty cold. We are going out when my friend comes home, but that's not for awhile. He works 2 jobs, so he really don't have free time at all.

[darlanoy0510]

I'm probably going to contradict myself. I don't know what to say bout this situation because I had a guy friend who does the same thing too. He always ask for pictures but he said he just like me as friend only. I think he might like you since high school and curious if you still look the same. Also would love to get to know you better or want to date you. Just watch the progress and how this relationship is heading. As long as he doesn't come out and say he likes you, there are going to be ton of answers out there.

[blondie252]

Yeah, but if she's sending him "naughty" pics or even just head shots, he has a pretty good idea of what she looks like currently. If she has seen him in person since HS he REALLY knows what she looks like. I think it sounds like a guy just wanting to test the H20 and see if she sends a picture of her face, along with more. Guys (no affense) can be sneakly like that. My opinion? Ask HIM. He's the one with the correct answer; not a bunch of people from the net who barely know the situation.

[blondie252]

Yes! Be careful! He's probably waxing his carrot to them or showing them to friends. A buddy of mine from HS does that to beat it to, if ya catch my drift. Tell him to take a hike.and if he wants to see your face, use his memory or come see you in person!

[Bubbles]

I think some people here need to re read or something.. he didn't ask for a nude I gave it to him, HE ASK;S FOR NON NUDE PICTURE OF THE FACE.... I'm not yelling, just maeking my point across.

[blondie252]

I can read perfectly well. But YOU need to open up your eyes. He's either pretending your his girlfriend or beating off to a head shot. Not every dude needs to see tits and ass to get off. Come on, now.

[truejbig]

I'm having nearly the same experience as "bubbles" and your answer enforces my theory!hmm...

[blondie252]

BTW.no disrespect here. Just trying to make sure you don't find a fake myspace page for you, filled with your photos. Never know a person't true motives till you ask.

[Bubbles]

Nope, my myspace only has to picture of me on it.

[apple24]

I am not sure. I usually assume its Fap picture or he trying to find out if I am a catfish!

[devoshe]

This guy is pretending he has a girlfriend. I believe you guys are not in that status. am I right? He likes you, that's why he want something, anything from you. Normally, the easiest thing a guy can obtain from a girl is pictures. Think about it. Good luck!

[Bubbles]

No he doesn't have a girlfriend.

[devoshe]

No, he wants to believe that 'you' are his girlfriend.

[Bubbles]

Oh ok.

[Anonymous]

I can tell from your pic you look pretty good. you being a girl you know that you can take some pics that don't quit turnout the way you want them to, say this pic you sent him might have been 1 of those. See this guy has friends that he's going to want to show a good pic of the girl that he's been talking 2 so he ask you 4 another 1 to show your true good looking self.

[Bubbles]

Ok, that could be why he tell's me not to hide my face

[Anonymous]

He isn't sure how ugly you are. He wants to make sure you haven't photoshopped your pictures. I feel sorry for the guy. He's wasting his time and he will be disappointed.

[MissClarity]

Hi,

Why does a guy want a picture of a girl in her swimming costume? (not bikini)

Just wondering..