OK I've been asking this question for eons...why can't I get a boyfriend..why on earth do men reject me? I look like a gorgeous model...I'm petite, thin nice sweet...caring compassionate monogamous loyal...I'm hot sexy funny cool smart... all in all I'd say I'm the perfect woman...well not perfect...
OK I've been asking this question for eons...why can't I get a boyfriend..why on earth do men reject me? I look like a gorgeous model...I'm petite, thin nice sweet...caring compassionate monogamous loyal...I'm hot sexy funny cool smart... all in all I'd say I'm the perfect woman...well not perfect but just a really good person, I don't do drugs smoke, don't really drink except sometimes...instead of men rushing to date me, they just reject me make fun of me, run away, insult me etc...people can't be around me without abusing or insulting me in some form or putting me down...u think well maybe women are jealous of pretty girls but in my case---even men are jealous of me and won't date me or be with me-- if anything men just want to dominate/abuse control and destroy me and not much else...they reject me sexually too and won't please me and are mean to me and weird...and try to get me to do things to them but won't do anything to me. Men treat me like a monster or weirdo yet I'm a nice sweet beautiful girl... this is all I experience and I'm used to it---but 30 sometimes years of utter loneliness and only abuse is getting to me...whereas I seem like the perfect girlfriend I can't get a boyfriend...and next thing I know men are dating some drug addict who steals from them and some psycho who rips their entire house apart...and they're perfectly happy with these crazy evil nutcase women and just reject me or seem to have an agenda or won't talk to me or who knows what. I've been going to dinner with a guy every weekend now-- after dinner-- he never tries to do anything else, hang out...go somewhere though he claims he wants a 'girlfriend'...after dinner he just says "OK BYE" and walks off abruptly---so weird...he even admitted I'm so pretty and articulate and smart and he's surprised I've never had a boyfriend and keeps saying.. "i don't get it" yet he really hasn't shown any interest in anything other than dinner and just runs off...i find it so odd.. I feel I have to aggressively pursue a guy to get with him and even then he'd still reject me...and then run to some psycho weird girl who steals from him...i guess I'll never meet a guy but I still find it so odd that guys instead of running to and wanting to be with a super hot girl just run away from her and reject her...
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Pull your head out of your ass for a second and read this...
That guy that you go to dinner with every weekend should be your boyfriend and he most likely wants to be your boyfriend. He is what is referred to as "the nice guy." Women never see us because we try not to be too intrusive by doing drastic things (like putting our hands all over you on a date or asking you to be our girlfriends). We take things very slow and respectfully and won't take anything to another level unless you give us permission. By permission I mean you have to give a sign that you want the guy that is so obvious only a retard wouldn't get it. Women always expect the guy to make the first move but the nice guys they complain they can't find don't really make the first move, they (we) will only go as far as you have signaled you're willing to go. Either make the first move on the guy (he'll be relieved) or make it so obvious you want him to do it that it is impossible for him to be confused and just play stupid like he is actually making the first move.
You aren't helping the situation by posting this rambling rant here.
If you sincerely wanted an answer to the question, you'd have to provide more relevant information in order for people who have insight to give you an honest explanation.
A good example is in the looks department, as many others have said. You're insistent that you're gorgeous. But if that was self-delusion and you sold yourself to potential dates online that way, and then in person they saw something else... well, I could imagine that would be one reason why they'd treat you like sh*t and move on.
But that's just one example. It could be something completely different. The truth is, we just don't know given the limited information you provided in the question.
Now, maybe you don't want to post a picture here for privacy reasons, or something. But at the very least, I'd suggest you contact someone on this site who you think you could trust reasonably well, and take the discussion off line. For example, send them a pic and get them to objectively rate it. Go over what happened on a typical date, in detail, and see if there's something your missing. That sort of thing.
Of course, if you're not actually interested in an answer, and just want to rant about how men don't appreciate you... well, carry on. You're doing just fine.
Umm first start trying not to overthink and over believe ur virtues... .. maybe they really dnt exist... its just hilarious to have someone praising themselves for more than half the post... get real and go get a life XD... and please do give us a pic... we would want to see ur immeasurable beauty and virtues
Because you're cocky and come off as arrogant and self absorbed.
I couldn't even read your entire question because I felt like you feel like your the most amazing thing to walk this earth, which news flash, there's lots of hot women out there who aren't cocky and self-absorbed.
Plus you whine about how no one pays you any heed.
The reason they don't, is because your all about your universe and your sh*t don't stink.