Why do guys flirt one day and ignore you the next?
Like they flirt with you one day by sending "mwah" through a text or whatever else, and then the next practically ignore the girl the next as if she doesn't exist. Especially when the guy knows that the girl likes him and they are good friends.
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Most Helpful Opinion
Its all a game, on both parts,
Take it from me, a player, I do what you described when I want to build desire in the other person and it totally worked on you. Don't believe me? Your thinking of him and why he's doing that, its gotten to you so much you had to come on to here to ask about it face it you're stuck thinking about him hardcore not that its a bad thing and not that he's a player I'm just telling you the psychology of it all.
Another thing I'll do is send my first few texts, that is if I EVER text which I hate because its so impersonal and cowardly in my opinion, but I digress. I'll send the first few texts in a quick response type thing then I'll gradually slow down the speed at which I replay throughout the day. This makes you girls wait for that next text in the same way as above, it keeps me on your mind as well as subconsciously makes me more valuable and seem like a harder catch because you wonder what's taking my attention away from you.
Any more questions about why guys do what we do when we game and I'd be glad to tell you just ask away, I help girls with this stuff all the time.
What Guys Said 5
It's called "I have a life and I'm not desperate enough to give her so much bullsh*t attention."
Are you an attention-wh0re? You're sounding like it.
You want him to flirt more with you? Then go see him when you both have free time. Flirt in person.
1. Gets busy
2. Gets stressed
3. Other family issues
3.5. Depresed for some reason
And those are just the first few that have nothing to do with the girl..
4. Didn't feel you flirted back
5. You or a friend said somthing that question if you like him
6. He's hoping his lack of flirting will make you flirt more
7. He's worried he's flirting to much and you think he's clingy
8. He's worried he's bugging you when he texts
9. He started every texting conversation this week and wants you to start one
10. He's worried he doesn't know how or has already flirted every way he can
11. He's worried you don't like him flirting with you like he did..
And the list goes on and on...
Him not liking you is so far down the list its crazy.. If he's flirting then stops..
Dont worry right away.. Give him one day of no texting then flirt with him
Text him this.. "SMILE...or else... Jk :p"
Or somthing simular have fun with it..
What Girls Said 4
I am going through this where the guy is playing hard to get and it just makes me like him even more. He gives me my space and he gets his space even if it takes him a month to respond. I enjoy that I have to chase him. It makes me wonder what he is doing and if he is thinking about me and so in turn it makes me think about him. I also do some of the playing hard to get too. Some girls like it and some girls don't. I am one that thought I would have given up if a guy did that to me but when it started happening then it just made me want him more. I was surprised at how I felt. Do both though. Maybe don't contact her everyday cause that can get annoying. I have guys who contact me everyday and I say not him again and I don't answer sometimes.
I know this is 3 months ago but if you haven't figured it out yet and he's still doing this, he isn't interested. He's just stringing you along. I had a guy do this to me for over a year and it was HELL trying to figure him out. Eventually I told him how I felt (even though I'm pretty sure he already knew) and now it's like a weight being lifted off of my shoulders.