It's kind of complicated. This guy that I hooked up with started liking me. I flirted with him and always pretended to like him. My friends (which are great friends with him too) knew that I didn't like him and eventually, the word got to him that I didn't like him. I realized as soon as he found out about me "not" liking him, I started to like him! He thinks that I don't like him, and now he doesn't talk to me as often. I don't want him to forget about me. How could I possibly regain his attention without seeming desperate? I still want to be in control of the situation!
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Id say your first issue is you don't seem to really want this guy you just want his attention.. And are only upset because your not getting what you want anymore...
But this could be caused by two reasons
1.. You have in issue and want all the attention
2.. You did acually liked this guy from the start and your just realising it cause you thought he wouldn't leave you and he did..
First off you need to find out which one it is... If you don't know why should he even try to know
If by chance you really do like this guy.. There is really one course of action.. And yes its going to put you on the spot...
Basicly you need to get him alone.. And being really serious.. Really Really serious.. You need to tell him you do like him... Not that your friends made a mistake and he found out but theyer lieing but that you didn't know you liked him untell after he found out..
Be truthful... Right now he can't trust a word you say.. So you must say the whole truth so he might catch something of it.. Remember you lead him on and he feels like you just pushed him down... so now you must humble yourself down to him.. You could try to help him up from where you are now... But he can't trust the hand that pushed him.. So now get down on the ground to help..
I know its hard but if you like this guy.. You must show him mercy1