Girls what would you think if a guy didnt try to hold your hand?

[Anonymous]

Well just trying to figure out girls what would you think if a guy didn't try to hold your hand or try to get a kiss from you after two dates. In my case the first date I did make an excuse to hold the girls hand, but didn't know if she thought it might have been weird. On the second date I didn't do it again. On both dates we hugged and I gave her a kiss on the cheek, but that was about it. That is also do when she does hug me she turns her face so I take that as my cue. At the same time I don't know what to do to escalate the relationship. From reading this you might guess that I am shy and not confident in myself which I have been told. Also it also boils down to me being inexperienced and having bad luck with girls. I am trying to change that which is why I am looking for advice. Especially with this girl that I am trying to date as the guy I know I have to move things in the way I want them to go. So I need some help on what to do.

[BlackShadow]

In my case , it took me 3 dates to get to the 1st kiss. I was as nervous as hell , but I remember it all better then she does.

It all adds up to how shy you are , but it took us 3 months before it got anywhere serious. But it took us a month to get to the 1st kiss because I was so in confident.

Don't rush it , if she doesn't understand that's her problem , but don't go where you aren't comfortable going

[madison13]

if you know for sure she is into you why not kiss her on the lips but if she keeps turning her head when you go in to kiss her maybe she isn't ready yet or isn't really into u. I think you shud continue going out with her and see where it goes you can't expect her to want to jump right into a serious relationship after 2 dates honestly this isn't twilight people don't just fall inlove after three dates.

[Shygirl901]

I would just think you are being polite, don't sweat it to much it will work out.