How to get a guy to chase you back?

[Anonymous]

There was a guy at school who really liked me and all but I wasn't sure if I should go for him because I just got out of a 3 year long relationship. I KNOW for a fact I do want him, wana be with him and all. But he's stopped chasing me andhe knows I want him now. How Do I get things fixed? Have I lost him forever?

[Lovelesspassion]

Hope you havent..

I just posted this on another post

If you do want him..

Then you need to tell him you do.. You can't joke on the matter..

If you don't tell him.. Then even if he thinks or knows you like him..

He will not show it.. He can never be sure so he'll be confused..

And leave..

Trust me I know..

Im thinking about leaving a girl I like just because she has never told me she likes me...

Im sure she does from time to time but I'm so confused with her... I'm thinking about giving up soon..

Untell I know anything from her I can't even touch her... I'm going to flirt a little more then if I can't be sertin.. She's lost me..

So as I said you need to open up a little.. Let him know you care..

[olaola]

if you relay like this girl before you give up on her tell her how things are, this may turn things around and if it doesn't you have nothing to lose anyway!

[Lovelesspassion]

lol My thoughts exactly... nothing to lose but her

My heart tells me to keep trying

but my body says give up...

her actions around her other guy firends says she dosnt like me

her actions around me says she does

I have told her I like her..

but I haven't told her I'm about to give up caring about her..

not to mention her close friends.. they are more confusing then she is...

theyer always double talking things.. one monent they act like she likes me then they act like she dosnt..

[Anonymous]

If he chased you and you pushed him away because you couldn't figure yourself out then it is your responsibility to initiate and fix things. If you want him you're going to have to take the risk. Otherwise I'm sure he's moved on. Like godfatherman said you're going to have to confess to him. You can't just come back and flirt a little to try and entice him again. If you do that, then you will look like a flake or a tease and he'll definitely be put off by you.

[arashmenalagha]

an honest answer!

[ibelieveinmagic]

First of all don't make him so he has you wrapped round his finger - nothing will happen! Speak to him as a friend. If he flirts or makes signs then ask him how he truly feels otherwise you need to send signs. Don't rush into things too fast either. I hope it helps.

[Godfatherman]

All you can do is declare your feelings for him and see how he reacts.