What's his deal? One minute he's acting like he likes me the next I can't even be bothered with!!!

amber622
I've been hanging out with this guy on and off for about 2 years now. He seems to only come around when he feels like it and we only hang out when he wants to. He kisses me on the forehead, we cuddle and he tells me he likes me, but he isn't looking for a relationship and I have respected that.

But I am getting very aggravated with him only coming around when he feels like it! Why do people do this? I don't because I find it very disrespectful, but I'm sure both men and women have this behavior.

Should I just start ignoring his texts and act like I don't care anymore? I really like him, but in the end he always leaves me feeling horrible about myself or the whole situation in general. Should it be this hard to just say "forget it" to a guy who acts like this, or do other people have this problem too..?
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The smallest advice would help! Even just a "ya I've been there too."
What's his deal? One minute he's acting like he likes me the next I can't even be bothered with!!!
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