Basically unless guys tell the girl how hot she is all the time, she is going to feel like a super buff hot guy is way out of her league and get intimidated. If the girl is not good looking or is never told that she is, she is going to have trouble talking to hot guys. If they talk to us first, it makes it easier to talk to them but its still pretty nerveracking and the girl may blush. If a girl thinks a guy is out of her league, she will definitely admire from afar when he's not looking because there is no way for her to seem like an idiot if the guy has no idea he's being checked out.
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Yeah a big guy like that is intimidating most girls are like h.hhii because of the fact your bigger and we get flustered lol and sometimes it's like your speaking to a wall haha. The biggest thing for me is to not show I'm into a guy that way I'm not too vulnerable to get shot down if he doesn't like me. Sometimes if you show you like someone a lot and they don't like you that hurts your feelings so usually a girl will play like she don't like you but if you show her you like her she will show you. Its all about meeting in the middle, 50/50.
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I shy out no matter which guy it is. He could be a twig and I'd still shy out. Big, muscular guys can be intimidating though, but it also depends on the face. If you have a sweet face and smile and laugh a lo, t you won't come off as too intimidating. However, if you frown, and always looked pissed off, you'll just scare the sh*t out of me, and I wouldn't approach you at all.
I have troubles talking to hot guys period. I am a shy girl, but I have been told that I am pretty unapproachable myself which would make sense why I don't have a boyfriend. But a buff guy is a major turn on. It shows he cares about himself and how he looks. Muscles=HOT. :) But I don't know if it really makes them even more unapproachable, I would say it depends on the level of hottness you are. Sounds kind of weird. But the more gorgeous you are the more I feel like I don't have a chance in hell with you, so that would be very unapproachable. Be proud you are buff, many girls like that.
I would have to say that I would never talk to a gorgeous guy like that first. If they started talking to me I would be so happy but would still be intimidated by him. I would for sure no lie check him out every chance I got.
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