Gave my number to a waiter....?
So I went to dinner with friends, and the waiter was really hot, and kept staring and smiling at me. Occasionally, we would ask him questions and he...
Rough version of my text: Hi (his name). I'm good, how are you? Hope you're not working too hard? It's nice to hear from you, hope to hear from you soon.
Could this text be the reason why I've heard nothing!? What the heck was I suppose to text!?
Why are guys saying that I should text him again? If he's interested he doesn't need me to text him again. The thought of that makes me sound pathetic. I'm so confused!
Most Helpful Guy
He's interested otherwise he would have never text. A guy would text a girl that gave him her number just so they could build something platonic.
He could be shy and / or not very aggressive. It took 3 days to text you. The delay because he doesn't want to seem pushy or perhaps desperate, he text 'cause it's safer than a call.
You text him back but fail to mention what you said. Did you just reply by answering his question? If he is shy or not very aggressive, a reply that doesn't give him an obvious opening is a reply that will go unanswered.
Shy people are tough to chase. You gave him your number and you replied back. Your interest is obvious and he's interested. You just have to do the work here. Welcome to the guys side of dating.
With all that said, conversely, he could have girlfriend and the sparks between the 2 of you just weren't enough to distract from that relationship.
So chase harder or let it go.
What Guys Said 5
He might've just wanted to start out slow and easy with texts. It is strange that it's been five days since he last texted, I'd wait a 3-4 more days before texting again. It is possible though he changed his mind, only time will tell.
i think he is playing hard to get and wants you to chase him to a point.
Bet he is just scared. Its the fear of the unknown
Sorry but for me personally, beating around the bush, I suck at subtle hints. I am very simple and hinting for me, I just end up not seeing it. I need direction. GUIDE ME. so, sorry but nothing confusing about him. You gave your number, but just ask, cause I wouldn't really know until I was asked.
What Girls Said 1
You should stop by and have dinner in that restaurant again. See how he's doing while looking inconspicuous. He texted you because talking can be very awkward, especially if you don't know him well. He did give you his number, and guys like confidence, so send him a text message.
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