I've used it 3 times with the same guy.
First time we still loved each other like mad
Next time, I had done something wrong, and he came round my house in tears missing me
Most recent time, he had left me for someone else, but thanks to NC he came back! :)
Sadly I'm not very good at holding onto him (personal problems), but the NC works amazingly well! Would recommend it to anyone. It makes him miss you, and gives you time and space to think about stuff.
Also listing your feelings, and listing pros and cons helps. It gets everything off your check, including those nagging things that you can't tell anyone, and puts it all into perspective :)
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It can work, but NC isn't foolproof. If you already gave it a month, I would see if you could set up a brunch date and try to look really good and see how the conversation goes. Give it your best shot, it's worth a try.
It has worked for me, it gave her time to realize what she was missing, but you are your own person, sure you can take advice from others but they don't love him like you do. You can try it, if he comes back great if not, try talking to him ;) hope this helped
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yea it does, it took my ex 9 months lol,
Worked like a charm in my situation..
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